Ministry of Parenting

From baby to big boy!!

2011-12-15T20:27:00.002-05:00

Mr. Smiles is in a toddler bed he is doing great and we couldn't be more proud of our little man!

He is 18 months going on "3" (at least). He wants nothing more than to be like the big kids. When mommy walked in to find him horizontal on the front of the crib it was time to take down the rail. He is our youngest crib to bed transitioner (is that a word?) but so far so good.

He has even mastered the in and out! Naps are a bit more tricky these days as the toys in his room are ever so tempting. However, Im happy to say when the sleepy sand starts to come...our smart little guy will make his way into his bed for a snooze! Nice job buddy :)

Keep up the good work!! Love, Mommy and Daddy

O'yes, and the stats on our man;
Tooth number 9 is popping through as of today
Weighing in at 23lbs (10-25%)
Height 32 inches (50%)
Say's Momma, Dadda, T, Nonna, Papa, Ball, Uh-O, Santa, Tree, and sign language of coarse (our saving grace with all of our kids!)
Loves; his sisters, balls, trains, trucks, to eat, and play babies with his big sisters :)

Thank the Lord!!

2011-12-08T06:51:00.001-05:00

All I have to say is "Thank the Lord" for digital camera's!! Trying to get "1" good picture this year for our Christmas cards was worse than getting a root canal. It was dark outside not letting enough light in from the outdoors, the lights in the house made the kids orange, and the tree lights gave a 'special' fire type glow! I give/gave up....picked 3 out of the terrible options and by far have created the worst family cards in my opinion in 6 years. O'well the message is still the same "Merry Christmas and Happy New Year" and "Many warm blessings for a happy 2012"!!

Hope you enjoy the laughs....the blurry pics

Ugh, Another one bites the dust!

Cheese!

She was soooo patient!!

Are we done yet?

Ahhhh, too much light!

Getting old....

Not bad :)

Duh?!?

The squeeze of death...

Hey, lets see how many ornaments I can take off?

So close but sooo far!!

Another...Cheese!!

Really, Mom, just stop already!!

This one would have been cute..minus the blur and the light

I told her big eyes...no squinting...this is what I got..LOL

Serious face?

My Lord, I hope you all enjoyed this because...I personally wanted to cry and I'm sure my kids did too! Thank you God I didn't have to print them all to view them :)

Stinker!

2011-10-20T07:26:00.000-04:00

Yes, Mr. Smiles has officially reached "stinker" status in our home! Climbing everything in sight and quickly transitioning into "boyhood". He mastered climbing the couch, the hamper, the table, the kitchen stools, the bed, and nearly out of the crib in a matter of weeks. Ugh!

I am thinking a "big boy" bed transition is in our very near future. The girls were both out of the crib by 21mo but at 16 mo??

Here my little man is in action...climbing the dirty clothes hamper of all things!! His monkey toes can help him climb virtually anything.

Getting his balance.....

Almost there...

SUCCESS!! Dear Lord...Pray for my sanity!

Homeschool Blog Awards

2011-10-13T21:00:00.000-04:00

Its that time of year... time to nominate your favorite homeschool blogs!!

It is always fun to participate (maybe I'll nominate you!) Be sure to give all those blogs you enjoy so much some much deserved love!!

Join the fun....nominate your favorites today and enjoy some good reading,tips, arts&crafts, recipes, and so much more!!

Spiced Cran-apple, Oatmeal Bread!!

2011-10-13T07:13:00.002-04:00

I love all things fall! One of my favorites though is the smell of yummy quick breads baking in our oven! Ahhh, its a little piece of heaven. The kids and I created this recipe the other day and I couldn't resist sharing it with all of you!

Spiced Cran-apple, Oatmeal Bread Ingredients

2 2/3 cups flour

1 1/2 teaspoons baking soda

1 teaspoon salt

1 teaspoon cinnamon

1 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice

2 cups granulated sugar

1 cup vegetable oil

4 eggs, beaten

2 teaspoons vanilla

3 cups coarsely chopped apples

1/2 cup craisins

1/2 cup quick oats

2 teaspoons sugar mixed with 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon

In a bowl, combine flour, baking soda, salt, and spices. In a mixing bowl, combine sugar and oil. Beat in eggs and vanilla, the gradually add the dry ingredients and mix until well blended. Lastly, fold in chopped apples, craisins, and oatmeal. Grease and lightly flour 2 9x5-inch loaf pans. Pour batter into pans, smoothing the top with a spatula or spoon. Bake for 15 minutes at 325°. Pull out rack and sprinkle loaves with the cinnamon sugar mixture. Continue baking for 30 to 40 minutes, or until a wooden pick or cake tester inserted in center comes out clean.

Cool for 10-15 minutes; turn out onto a rack. Slice and serve or freeze.

We enjoyed this with our dinner but it is also extra delicious with that morning cup of coffee~ ENJOY!

The Story of Doors

2011-10-06T06:46:00.003-04:00

So often we here the saying as "one door closes another will soon open"....well for the first time EVER that is my thinking. Some of you may know I have been writing for our beloved city for the past 10 months. I have thoroughly enjoyed it and had a great response to my writing as a result. What a confidence booster knowing so many lives have been changed, helped, and supported along the way. Just through my writing. Who would have thought? In having been given this opportunity I have also come to love and stumble upon a gift that I have in fact been given. The gift of writing!

Yesterday, I received a phone call from my editorial stating that "things are changing as a result of some cooperate decisions and unfortunately my column will be no longer". Ugh! Bummer...He also said "there was never a question of content, deadlines, or ability" "if it were up to me I would be keeping you on" yay! Go me!

None, the less...now what? I thought..prayed..and prayed some more about this last night and have decided to continue writing (of coarse) for anyone who might like to read it..hahaha! I love all of you who do (and those who don't..you"ll likely never see this) hehehe

That said..you can fully expect to find more of my "writing" here as I make a "re-newed" commitment to my own beloved blog(s)

You might also note that my once "Loving Motherhood" title has also been changed

to "Ministry of Parenting" as I still love being a mother (of course) I have also found great peace in know that I am "serving" others in their similar journeys. The rewards and struggles of parenting are great; as we go forth new doors may open and others may close. Although the "unknown" is still to be found somethings are for certain; we will continue to walk hand in hand in our "journey" being the best we can be to our child/children each step of the way.

Be sure to follow me on the (right) as I will not always be posting to FB :) and I love seeing your smiling faces on my "followers" list!

Boo-Boo's and Band-Aids

2011-08-17T14:36:00.000-04:00

Its official Mr. Smiles has his "first Boo-Boo" and in return he received his first ever "Band-Aid"! Sorry buddy, we didn't have any "boyish" ones in the house....guess Mommy will add that to the shopping list.

The funny thing is unlike when the girls got their first "boo-boo's"; we knew it, tears, and sadness ..."Mommy, come help me!" Not Mr. Smiles: I sat him down for lunch and noticed blood dripping down his leg...ewww! Guess boys will be boys! We cleaned him up and gave him a "band-aid"...good as knew.

And still smiling!

2011-08-13T21:50:00.000-04:00

O.K so I could try my best to play "blog catch up" or just admit...I have been terrible at keeping up with this thing lately! I will do my best to "catch up" but truth of the matter is this summer has been flying by....

We have enjoyed a lot of family time on the lake, park days, horse back riding, time with friends, "summer school", zoo trips, and so much more. It would be impossible to recap it all...but the good thing is I have pictures for nearly everything! I have taken almost 1000 pictures since May!!

Now, I have to get cracking and "catch up" on those memorable moments before they are just that "memories"!

Almost "ONE"!!

2011-06-09T06:33:00.000-04:00

It is hard to believe...my "little man" is almost "ONE"! Mr.Smiles you are such a joy to have in our life!! We are blessed beyond words with your charming personality and your wonderful disposition! Although, STILL a terrible sleeper (just like your sisters) we love you just the same.

Still crawling at lightning speed...I'm shocked, but O.K with it too! It seems as though you do everything "fast" soooo...Im sure when you walk...it will be more of a "RUN"! You have grown up so quickly from a tiny baby....to a self feeding (still nursing)...bundle of fun!

You helped "manage" our first family lemonade sale!!

You are a true water baby from birth...never so much as a "squeal" in the tub! Splish, splash...you love taking a bath, swimming, and yes, boating :) Well, all except your life jacket...you much prefer to be on the go or sleeping down below to the hum of the engine.

"3" kids later the little blue pool...is still a hit!! Although, it is getting a bit tight...time for an upgrade? Or at least a city pool pass for those "hot" summer days ahead. The weather around here has been one extreme to the next...60-90 degree in any given week.

Mr. Smile Stat's; 6 teeth (four on top, two bottom), drinks from a cup (although, he still loves nursing approx. 6 times in 24 hrs..YIKES), loves to eat (still staying away from rice, and "orange" veggies due to extreme eczema problems), crawling, says "momma", "dadda", "hi", "KA (car)", makes the sound of a car, "woof, woof", LOVES to talk..can you tell? Blows kisses, gives high five, waves, learning sign language, O' and I have my first "biter"!! Tips on breaking this would be appreciated!! :)

Mr. Smiles..says "Thank you" for spending his first year with him!!

2 Become 1

2011-05-18T05:00:00.002-04:00

Nope not a wedding, I'm talking about my blogs!! I have officially decided that I will be combining my two blogs (this one and my homeschool blog). Mostly for my own sanity these days!

Long before we actually began homeschooling Pumpkin ( and now Boo too!) I read countless books, blogs, etc. saying "homeschooling is a lifestyle". Well, my thoughts were "yeah, whatever!" Now, one full "official" year under our belt and another soon to follow; I am here to tell you....yes, it is a lifestyle. My days revolve around school and "our school" revolves around "our life". I love being a mother and I love homeschooling our children!! It no longer makes sense to keep the "two" separate.

I am excited to "blend" the two and Im sure you will be "entertained" along the way. I will periodically be posting blog entries from "Wee Explorers" to trickle in the transition....the "construction" I promise will be full of laughs, crafts, lesson plans, and sooo much more from my "3" little monkeys!!

And for those who might "not quite" be on board with homeschooling....we are all entitled to our opinions...all I ask is kind words, well wishes, and blessings along the way. Just as we do to you we appreciate the same in return. It makes the world a better place!!

Step2 Give Away

2011-05-17T20:43:00.000-04:00

Thanks to a dear friend of mine...I just found this awesome Step2 give away and I couldn't resist sharing it with all of you!! Best of luck to all who enter...I'm keeping my fingers crossed this would be a great summer back yard treat for the kiddos.

Meet Flika the Frog

2011-05-11T20:25:00.000-04:00

After a "blogging" vacation we are back!! Not only are we back, but we have a new member of the family.

Meet Flicka the Frog!!

We have been busy "plowing" through school with approximately 10 days left of Kindergarten ...we are looking forward to a summer filled with science exploration! After a lot a reading, contemplating, and talking it was decided that a "dwarf frog" would be a great "starter" pet for Pumpkin. It was evident that she wanted a little pet of her own and we have been looking at purchasing some animal life cycle kits from HERE anyways.

So for now we have the frog, and in the future we will likely have little tadpoles. You ask why in that order? Since Pumpkin really wanted a pet, I could not bare her disappointment should none of her tadpoles turn into little frogs. Now, in the future if our "science experiment" goes smoothly she may just end up with a few new friends...

Boo has a request for a "ladybug house" so that is also on the list of coming soon...until then she too is enjoying our "hopping little buddy" Flicka!

In A Nut Shell!!

2011-04-27T12:14:00.003-04:00

So..."In A Nut Shell" after having weeks...Yes, WEEKS of sickness in our house!! I am happy to report that we are all better....AMEN!!

Mr. Smiles....say's YAY, TOO!!

We have feverishly been trying to "catch up"...cleaning, work, and school all seemed to"pile up"! Im hoping one more week of "normal" and we will be back in business. 4 out of 5 of us came down with pink eye, we had fevers galore, coughs that wouldn't let up, runny noses, 2 ear infections, our first antibiotics (ever!) welcomed into our home, 4 trips to the doctor, countless "pharmacy" runs, trips to the chiropractor, and health food store....and MANY sleepless nights!! It is a work in progress...

Until we are "caught up" we hope you and your families are well!! Happy Belated Easter!!

With Love, Pumpkin, Boo, and Mr. Smiles!!

Beautiful Babies Giveaway WINNER!

2011-04-17T20:14:00.031-04:00

The winner was randomly selected using THIS sight;

Congratulations to HoneysuckleB said "Too cute and would love to have one!!"

I hope you enjoy your new hat made especially for you by Beautiful Babies!! Be sure to visit Erica's sight for many more of your baby needs her items are truly "beautiful". Stay tune for new/upcoming giveaways in the future!!

April Menu w/Lunch & Breakfast Ideas

2011-04-05T07:18:00.001-04:00

So yes, it is April 5th!! However, we have not been starving over here....it has been crazy busy and some how the monthly food menu got overlooked!!

I hope you like this months menu and I have included some Breakfast/Lunch Ideas too!!

"Happy eating from our home to yours!"

Breakfast:

Monday-Muffins &Fruit

Tuesday- Pancakes & Yogurt

Wednesday- Oatmeal/Granola

Thursday- Bagel Day

Friday- Smoothies, PB Toast

Saturday- Egg Casserole, Scrambled Eggs/Sausage

Sunday- Daddy Picks

Lunch:

Monday - Grilled Sandwich Day (grilled chz, ham/chz,)

Tuesday - Crackers,Chz, and Fruit Platter

Wednesday- Mac n' Cheese, Chicken Nuggets, Or Soup & Crackers

Thursday- PBJ, PB and honey Sandwich, Fruit Cups, and Pretzels/Graham Crackers

Friday- Hard Boiled Eggs, Fruit, and yogurt

Beautiful Babies Giveaway!!

2011-04-01T04:00:00.002-04:00

I am so excited to host my first giveaway for all my lovely readers!!

On October 15, 2008 Erica opened Beautiful Babies making mostly crochet blankets and booties. Business was slow as she learned the ins and outs of owning an online retail business. Now, almost 21/2 years later, Etsy has turned a once loved hobby into a full fledged business for this "work at home mom"!! Beautiful Babies was even contacted by a designer from “The Smurfs” movie scheduled to release this upcoming Summer 2011; they requested one of Erica's one of a kind blankets be sent overnight to Colombia Pictures in New York! The blanket was said to be "perfect" for a certain scene in the upcoming movie.

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Wordless Wednesday!

2011-03-30T06:52:00.002-04:00

Are you a play-doh mixer? Boo certainly is!!

For more Wordless Wednesday

Mommy's Yummy Granola

2011-03-28T14:25:00.000-04:00

So I decided to try my hand at some granola!!

Ingredients;

4 C. Rolled Oats

2 C. Flake like Cereal (I used Honey Bunches of Oats)

1/2 C Whey Protein

2 T Flax Seed

1/2 C. Walnuts Chopped

1/2C. Pecans Chopped

1/2 C. Peanut Butter

1/2 C. Maple Syrup

1/2C. Honey

2T. Coconut Oil

1/4 C. Vegetable Oil

1Tsp Cinnamon

Dash Salt

1) Preheat oven 325 degrees; line cookie sheet with parchment paper

2) Mix all dry ingredients in a large mixing bowl

3) Heat peanut butter, maple syrup, honey, coconut oil, vegetable oil, cinnamon until bubbly in sauce pan. Add to dry ingredients and mix thoroughly. Spread evenly on cookie sheet. Bake 20-30 minutes until golden brown!

4) Add chocolate chips, craisens, or raisens once cool

5) Enjoy!

Giving 40!!

2011-03-24T07:14:00.000-04:00

Sunday I sent out an email that included the following;

"Lent is upon us! Did you know? Lent is from the Anglo-Saxon word lengten, which means spring. [From Modern Catholic Dictionary by John Hardon, S.J.]"

"During Lent we often think of “giving things up” i.e candy, chocolate, coffee, etc. When in fact; it is a time to reflect on our lives, and take hold of opportunities to live richer, sin free lives. It is “leaving behind an old way of living and acting in order to embrace new life in Christ.”

"That said, I have decided this year (since my children are so young we are going to commit to a minimum of 40 hours of service over the rest of the year. Although, I would love to complete 40 hours of service during lent alone I do not know that our schedule allows for such a commitment (we shall see!)".

"So yes, we are doing approximately 5 hours of service a month!! In such a self centered world I think it is important to teach my children that the sun does not rise and set for him/her alone!!"

"So, how does this affect you? Along the way we maybe inviting you to serve along way or present opportunities of “Almsgiving” as a sign of our care for those in need and an expression of our gratitude for all that God has given to us."

First up;

A family that my children and I know (they are in our MOPS group as well as a few homeschool groups we associate with!) is in need!! Their home caught fire Saturday morning. (SIDE NOTE: We do not know this family personally...simply have exchanged smiles, a few words here and there. A sweet family indeed and most deserving as I myself can not imagine losing everything.) Did I mention this family has 10 kids?

"The kids and I will be putting together “little” care packages for each of the 10 children so I would LOVE your help in doing so :)"

SOOO...that was the plan, right?

Well, my home has since been turned into a full fledge donation center..skip the care packages! I quickly came to realize the amount of donations coming in for this family far exceeds anything that I could put in a few boxes. The need was great and God has certainly provided. The family is doing well, I have since been in contact with Mom several times. Donations are all being held at a kind woman's home who has given up her garage for the time being to store everything. There is talk of a sort of "rummage" sale to raise money for the family. Since the out pouring love, prayers, and generosity far exceeds what they themselves and surely myself expected.

Remember I was thinking care packages?! Here is roughly what has been collect in just "5" days (keep in mind this is ONLY what I have here...there are several others "housing" things)

Toys (legos, play sets, etc.)
Books
Soap (bar and liquid)
Lotion
Hair stuff (combs, brushes, pony holders)
Clothes (all sizes)
coats
shoes
socks
underwear
pantry items (beans, tomatoes, applesauce)
cereal and snacks
gift cards...

And the list continues...the outpouring love (again) for a family which I barely know has been a true testament as to the number of lives we do not know we touch on a daily basis. I can guarantee this family had no idea how many would come forth to "help" them. It is amazing to see the number of people they (a family of 12) have "touched" over the years. So I leave you with this....

Although, we may only exchange a smile, a quick "hello", or no "exchange" of communication at all with someone....that "someone" may just be the person/s who will help you along the way when you need it the most.

The saying "think before you act!" There is something to be said about "nice" people. And this local family truly "ranks among some of the nicest" clearly by the shear amount of support seen in a just a few short days!

Yummy! Caramel French Toast

2011-03-15T10:40:00.001-04:00

Lent is upon us and we tend to eat a lot of breakfast on Fridays...so I thought I would share a "meatless" family favorite with all of you!!

Ingredients;
1C. Brown Sugar
2 tsp. Corn Syrup
13/4 C Milk
8 oz Cream Cheese
1/2C. Butter
8 Eggs
11/2 tsp. Vanilla
Loaf of french style bread sliced

1) Preheat oven 350 degrees
2) Grease 9 x 13 pan
3) Heat butter, corn syrup, and brown sugar over medium heat until bubbly (this is your caramel sauce!)
4) Blend Eggs, milk, and vanilla in a medium mixing bowl (set aside)
5) Layer with 1/2 of your caramel sauce , then add 3/4 of your bread slices, sprinkle cream cheese throughout and/or spread over bread, add remaining bread, and top with the rest of the caramel sauce. Pour egg mixture over all layers. Bake uncovered for 40-45 minutes!!

This is a great lent treat and or Easter morning breakfast!! This can also be made ahead and put in the fridge for the next day...quick and easy!!

Good bye 20's

2011-03-10T06:17:00.003-05:00

Well, it is official...

I am in the 30 club!! Happy Birthday to me :) I had a great day spent with my family, shopping with my mom, it poured rain, my lovely husband had beautiful flowers sent to the house, and we kicked off lent eating some fish fry from a local church in the area!! Thanks to all my wonderful family and friends for making my day

so special!!

My First 30 Years!!

They looked something like this...

Learn to walk, talk, run, play, enjoy life just being a kid....

School, school, and more school....

Dance, Cheerleading, a bit of this a bit of that...

Youth group, mission trip, choir

All the while making wonderful friends to share it with!

The ups, the downs...and everything in between..

Work, play, work, play...

Get married to my lovely husband

have 3 beautiful little blessings...

Working harder than ever before.....

Playing more than ever...

Praying tons..

and just taking a hold of all that life has to offer!!

I'm not sure what the next 30 years will look like for me...

but I am looking forward to sharing it with

all those around me!!

My life is blessed not by what I have done...

nor by what I have accomplished...

but by those who have blessed me along the way!!

March Menu

2011-03-02T13:22:00.002-05:00

So better late than never!! I can't believe it is already March....time is flying by!! I have included recipes and a few web sights (others are just in my head...if your interested in those you can always contact me).

My Little Man "8" Months Old

2011-02-18T08:11:00.000-05:00

I have not done an update on my little man "Mr. Smiles" in sometime and as I have said before this blog and our school blog...both serve as my "memory" at times. He is 8 months already!! I can not believe it!! Seems like only yesterday, I was cuddling on the couch with my blue eyed baby (yep, they are still blue!) and NOW...we are off!!

He is crawling EVERYWHERE...he is speedy quick, and has no problem keeping up with big sisters. He even stood up for the first time Tuesday, February, 15th. The best part was we all got to see it...he has not done it since, but it is coming! He will by far be my earliest walker. Pumpkin did not walk until she was 19 months old...Im hoping Mr. Smiles makes it to 9 mo (Mommy is not ready)!!

He is has two bottom teeth and is working on more!

He is ALL boy...he loves balls, trains, cars, and anything that has wheels, rolls, and is loud!! He growls like a lion, makes fish lips, has great fine motor skills, and loves to dance. This boy is a blast..I just want to bottle him up! We think the little man has some food allergies but other than that he is easy peasy!!

Big Hugs and Kisses!! From Mr. Smiles :)

Adventures of Alaska

2011-02-11T12:39:00.002-05:00

With pass ports in hand we have taken off on a USA Adventure!! Hope you will join us along the way!!

First stop is Alaska....for more on our Journey be sure to join us HERE!

Sugar Cube Igloo
I mixed 1egg white with 11/4 c. powder sugar for the 'glue'
1 Box of sugar cubes (I bought ours at Meijer)
Draw a circle on a piece of cardboard and start building!!
Super Easy!! And Tons of Fun!!

What were Igloo's used for?

You can tell by the pictures that my girls were in deep thought during this project. However, they both did lose interest by the end (it took an hour). The initial few layers go quickly, but the taller the Igloo gets the longer you have to let it set to dry: this helps prevent an obvious collapse from occurring during construction. We took advantage of the drying time by reading stories about Igloos, the Northern Lights, and the Iditarod!!

Monkey Bars

2011-02-04T09:06:00.000-05:00

Pumpkin needed a quick easy recipe for a bake sale so we made these; Yummy Monkey Bars!!

Ingredients

1/3 cup peanut butter
1/3 cup brown sugar
2 1/2 tablespoons butter (we used a 1T of Coconut oil in place of 1 T of butter)
1 egg
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 ripe banana, mashed
2/3 cup rolled oats
1/3 cup all-purpose flour
2 tablespoons wheat germ (we used flax seed too)
1/4 teaspoon baking soda
(We also added some cinnamon and some pumpkin pie spice...next time I would probably even add some dried fruit)

Directions:

1) Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Grease a 9x9-inch baking pan

2) In a large mixing bowl beat the peanut butter, brown sugar, and butter with mixer. Just until smooth and fluffy. Beat in egg and vanilla, then add banana. Stir in the oats, flour, wheat germ, and baking soda. Spread in prepared baking pan.

3) Bake 20-25 minutes...sprinkle with powdered sugar or serve with butter..MMM!!

**Original Recipe Found Here we altered the original quite a bit after reading the reviews :)

Snow Day!

2011-02-02T14:45:00.006-05:00

So after warnings of blizzard conditions....we did in fact get a "snow day"!! Not quite the storm they projected us to get, but none the less fun for the kids. It has certainly been enough to give those who work outside the home a headache, and those like myself plenty of creative 'play-time' with my kids. Being the planner that I am...my prep started as soon as the warnings went out;

*First I stopped at the library (making sure I had plenty of "new" books on hand)
*I planned several Sensory Bin Activities (which also included going to buy new bins at the dollar store!)
*I planned a fun craft for the little guys (check...)
* Homeschool continues as usual yes, even during snowstorms! So we will continue our study of Arctic (with emphasis on Alaska) and of coarse all of our 'daily' work too!!

I even completed my "Winter Storm Prep" with a surprise trip to our local Toy/Hobby Shop. (My favorite Mom and Pop Shop around!!) I then let the kids pick a toy using their gift cards from Christmas. I love doing this with them because they get to choose what they want and it costs me nothing (well very little sometimes). I show them how much they have and proceed to walk around the store looking at the price tags with them. I am a firm believer in teaching little ones about money and spending within his/her means (yes, even at 2 and 5 they know what money is). For more on our "Snow Fun" be sure to stay tune as I will be posting all of our Winter Adventures here shortly!!

Ice Skating, Ice, Ice, & More Ice!!

2011-01-28T14:42:00.004-05:00

This Winter we are trying out some new activities in our home. One of which is Ice Skating. Not sure we are ready for the Olympics but we are certainly enjoying our time spent at the rink.

I recently found a post on how to make this cute little "Ice Skating Rink" complete with an ice skater. I of coarse had to do it since it coordinated so well with our new hobby. If you make one...be sure to leave me a comment with a link back to yours so I can check it out!!

Supplies Needed:

White Card-stock
Blue crayon
Blue Water Color, paintbrush, water
Salt
Cotton Balls
Green Construction paper for trees
Glue & Scissors
Choose your Skater
Crayons (for coloring your skater)
Cardboard (optional) we used this as the base and then glued our pond on top for sturdiness

How to;

First color a pond shape onto your white cardstock. Then, cut and glue to your card board for sturdiness. Taking the blue water color paint...paint over your colored drawing. Sprinkle with salt to give your pond a glistening affect.

To create skating marks in the ice while it is still wet take anything pointy but not too sharp (a retracted pen, the end of kids scissors, etc.)

While the pond is drying color your skater, make trees (out of green construction paper), and glue cotton balls around the outside edge of your pond (making snow).

Lastly cut and glue your skater and trees in place (careful to leave a tab on the end of both for folding...this is so they will stand)

Voila...you have your own indoor skating pond!

We have also been busy learning about the Arctic, Polar Bears, and Penguins...so I made these yummy treats last night!!

You Need;
Ice Cream
Ice Cream Sandwich
Whip Cream
Chocolate chips

These were super easy and very yummy!! 1 scoop of ice cream on each plate, cut an ice cream sandwich for ears, form the face using whip cream (as much or little as you would like)...you could also use coconut for fur but my kids won't eat it. Using the chocolate chips give your new friend some eyes and a nose!!

Boo says..."mmmm...thats good Mommy"!!

O'Tiny Little One!!

2011-01-24T14:32:00.000-05:00

"O'Tiny Little One", So Itty-Bitty and Small

What big lessons you have taught us all...
life is not measured by the breaths we take..
but rather by those we touch along our way!!

We all have a story to open and unfold....

Someday we will meet our Heavenly Father...
and then the questions left unanswered may then be told!!

"Little Angel" up above...
you are our shining light...
you are the star we pray towards at night!!

"Please Mommy, do not cry!"

"I am here with you always and forever..
until someday, we will be together!"

There are no guarantees in life...
but some things hold true...

"Little Angel" up above this much I can speak of you..
Your Mommy and your Daddy love you very much too!!

Until we meet again little one, so tiny and so small!!

Love, Aunt Jenny

Meal Planner

2011-01-23T11:29:00.021-05:00

Bowling Lesson Learned!

2011-01-21T06:59:00.002-05:00

We recently took the kids bowling ...this was Boo's first time ever!! Thanks to the "kiddie ramp" she did quite well. I do not remember those things when we were kids. I remember potty shots and jumping around like a frog just hoping my ball didn't get stuck. Also the bumpers have come a long way too...no more big balloon type things the owner drags across the lane. These babies were long poles...controlled electronically. I guess some modern changes are for the better after all!!

Santa brought the family a Wii this year for Christmas so "real" bowling was a bit of a challenge for Pumpkin. Being a big 5 year old she certainly did not want to be seen using a baby ramp!! Therefore, making the game a bit more difficult. At times, I just prayed the ball would make it down the lane (probably what my Mom used to do!).

We only played one game, but I was happy both girls were able to complete it in its entirety; scoring in the 80's not bad!! Pumpkin pouted the entire way home because she did not get any spares or strikes!! She is used to scoring in the 100-200's on the Wii with strikes being a regular in her game. Hmmm...thank you technology...

Boo and Daddy

Luckily, we were able to move forward and of coarse use this as a teaching lesson!! The girls tried their hardest, accomplished a goal (playing an entire game), it doesn't matter who "wins", and just be proud of yourself (Mommy and Daddy were proud too!).

So I leave you with the thought is modern technology helpful or hurtful? I like to think both!!

Ice Cream Garbage Bowl

2011-01-19T11:46:00.007-05:00

January is well upon us and when all else fails eat "Ice Cream"!! Well, that motto works in my family at least. This year has thrown us a few curve balls as the new year always has a tendency to do so for my family. We have had some really bad days, some good days, and we have some new adventures up and coming!!

In order to rid our house of the insane amount of holiday candy, cookies, etc. we all made a "garbage sundae" with all the fixings. Can you say yummy? We added sprinkles, caramel, chocolate syrup, M&M's, little candy's, crushed cookies, and basically anything that was sitting around left over from the holidays. What didn't go in the bowl went in the garbage!! What a great way to get rid of all of those half eaten bags of unnecessary junk food.

Pumpkin is in deep thought. I know in her mind she was trying to figure out how to make it last!!

Now onto business;

I have recently switched from SAHM to WAHM...now I say that but truth, is I don't think I have ever really stopped working since I had children. I have cleaned houses, created businesses, sold on Etsy, babysat, this that and 100 other things to make a few extra dollars. I am blessed to not necessarily "have to" work, but I think it is just in my blood. I do not know any different. Interestingly enough, I do not typically go "find" work it always seems to "find" me.

This year two very exciting opportunities have "found me"and I'm excited to share them with all of you!! I am working for my Dad's Real-Estate firm and I will also be taking on an up and coming freelance writing position.

More details to come!!

Ringing in the New Year!

2011-01-03T22:20:00.002-05:00

To ring in 2011 this year we went to my parents house for a BIG family sleep over. The guys and my oldest nephew attended a NHL Red Wing hockey game. While the women and little ones stayed behind for some make over FUN!!!

O.K, so Mr. Smiles did not have a make over, but he was happy to hang out with the ladies and his cousin J.J

My little K.Bear wanted to paint her own toe nails...ugh! This was not the first time I let her do this, but I must confess the last time was outside and a lot less stressful. Something about bright pink nail polish, a 2 year old, and a white floor can be REALLY scary!! Luckily, we had an old table cloth to lay out...just in case!!

Check out those toes!!

Pumpkin had been looking forward to our "family sleepover" for days...it was hard to contain her excitement at times. She tried out her blush brush...in an attempt to cover the nasty scratch K.Bear gave her earlier in the day. We have to work on Pumpkins defense....the poor girl is so passive and sweet it is hard for her to 'fight back'. In the mean time...our continued efforts of discipline for K.bear at times can be very trying and tiring. She is one cute little stinker...who is very familiar with her room, the corner, a rug, spanking, and our most said phrase in our home "listen and obey!"

The girls pose for a quick picture showing off their glimmer and shine make up!!

and...the little man wants to say a quick "Hello"!!

After the little ones went to bed...it was time for Pumpkin and Mommy to try out the Wii Active....O'WOW I have not worked out in a LONNNNG time...after about 10 min of squats a lot of laughs and a sore butt for the 2 days following. Im glad I did it and might look at joining the workout world again in the near future. In my spare time that is (wink, wink)!!

So in a nut shell that is how we spent our New Year..sleeping everywhere in my parents house...laughing, eating, and just enjoying some family time. Although, I do not know what 2011 holds for me or my family...one thing is certain we will be TOGETHER!!

From my family to yours Happy New Year!!

My little man, JR, and JJ (my nephews)

Advent Kick Off

2010-12-16T06:53:00.000-05:00

Last week we kicked off our advent count down with lots of fun activities.We attended our cities tree lighting ceremony..complete with reindeer, hot coco, donuts, and Santa.

K.Bear enjoyed her donut before bed! She had little interest in the hot chocolate,but did send Mommy on a mad mission to find a drinking fountain. Since I have a phobia of them I of coarse grabbed a cup to fill!

Mr.Smiles had about 8 layers covering him and was in a frozen state of "awww" !!

We live in a great city with wonderful friends and neighbors (although I would still love to live in the country) there isn't a day that goes by that we don't see, play, or hang out with someone in the area. So of coarse we ran into friends at the tree lighting ceremony and had our own little 'group'. The girls even spotted a "Santa star"? A star in the sky they both agreed was Santa's sleigh. And wouldn't you know it when Santa arrived to the city we looked in the sky and the star was gone!! What a great testimony to a child's imagination and appreciating the little things in life.

Pumpkin had the honor this year to help Mommy decorate the tree. She was thrilled to stay up later than the little ones. I was pleasantly surprised by the great job she did!! She is now looking forward to our sleepover under the tree on December 23rd.

This picture is a bit dark..but we really are in it!! The decorating committee (Mommy, Pumpkin, and Teddy)

We have two trees in our home a real tree (above) and an artificial one we put in the basement (below). I grew up having two trees so this is nothing out of the ordinary for me. There was the entertaining tree and the "Santa Tree" and yes, the entertaining tree would be in the room where the kids were the least. Growing up this was in our living room... the room of pristine cleanliness...the room of look don't touch. Now, having 3 little ones myself I find great comfort in those little "home" get a ways..I love my kids dearly, but love my space too!! In our home now, that is our basement!!

Toothless Princess

2010-11-30T13:56:00.000-05:00

That's right Pumpkin lost her first tooth. The bottom right...my little princess was so excited. She was the first of her friends to lose a tooth so that made it all the more special for her. Pumpkin being one of the youngest of her friends was thrilled to do something before her "6 yr old" buddies :) the smile on her face from ear to ear was contagious!!

Pumpkin announced that her tooth was "wiggly" about 4 wks ago, I thought (we have plenty of time)!! Then much to my surprise and Pumpkins; after munching on a not so soft cookie left over from Thanksgiving, that little "wiggly" tooth became a VERY "wiggly" one!! O'boy Mommy's not ready for this...

Two hours later, a little wiggle and jiggle...and "POP" out it came!! Im not sure who was more surprised; Pumpkin with the crocodile tears and shriek of terror, or me with my gasp for air!! I am happy to report that the shock quickly turned into excitement....

Of coarse we took pictures of everything...

In my MOPS group years ago we made these tooth pillows...which I had kept for that "just in case" moment!
She tucked her tooth safely in the pillow and set it on her dresser for the Tooth-fairy's arrival. Also tucked away in my back pocket I had a special book ready to go for the big occasion "The Night Before the Tooth Fairy Came".

Here is Pumpkin brushing her new smile minus 1 tooth !!

Pumpkin went to bed one HAPPY 5 yr old...and Mommy went to bed thinking my how time fly's!! She was just teething and now a part of her babyhood is already leaving...very sad!! I know we are always told by those with older children "enjoy them" ...how true that is "enjoy them, hug them, squeeze them..." because everyday that goes by quickly turns to a week, a month, and a year...before you know it the pitter patter of tiny feet are gone and the house has gone still. Pray you have done well!!

Watch "US" Grow

2010-09-05T22:53:00.086-04:00

Well, without further a do I'm here to tell you ...3 kids certainly does something other than give you stretch marks, gray hair, and cause a severe case of memory fog!! It makes you appreciate life....quiet moments, 1st experiences, health, happiness (I love those giggles), and unconditional love!! I must also mention that my memory fog thanks to my children is 100% the reason I NEED this blog. My kids are growing like weeds. It is hard to believe that my baby girl is in Kindergarten....already!!! Where has time gone? I just graduated high school for goodness sake... :)

We recently took a family field trip to 'our' farms! I say 'our' loosely because we do not live on one (although I would love too), right Mom?! We are members of a CSA (Maple Creek) and we also go in on a cow every year....thanks to my children I insist on knowing where my food comes from!!! I could go on about this for days....I'll spare you the details of all that we do in our home (freezing, canning, freezer meals, co-op, homemade laundry soap, etc.) another post...another day!!

Our kids love the tour of both farms, but I can not say the farm kittens were a big fan of our kids!! Pumpkin was determined to stuff one in the van and K.Bear just wanted to be like her big sister...holding..squeezing...squashing...O'poor kitty!!!

Weeks 10 and 11 for the little guy were just packed with firsts and I DO mean "PACKED"!! Farms...field trips...go, go , go!! We enjoyed a train ride at a nearby "Village"...a carriage ride...a carousel ride (mommy was not a fan of this!)...Pumpkin loved learning about the past!! She now wants a typewriter of her own.

Then there is Boo she just loves to eat...eat..and eat some more!! It is amazing that she is only in the 5th percentile!! I could just squeeze her...maybe that's where she got her affection for the kitty?! Mr. Smiles is still sleeping like a champ...5 hr stretches the first go around and 2-3 after that..not bad for not quite 3 months old!!

I couldn't resist taking a picture of those huge eyes!! Mr.Smiles has K.Bears big eyes only blue. He is giggling like crazy..ticklish as ever and unlike his big sister who is in the 5th percentile for everything...Mr. Smiles is yep, you guessed it 75% for Weight...50% for Height!! One big boy!!


We enjoyed another trip to the Zoo...the weather was beautiful!! The kids had a blast...especially with the Monkey's!! Hmmm...I wonder why??

Lastly, what Summer would not be complete without S'mores? Mmmmmm..good!! No need for explanation just dive in and enjoy!!

Watch "US" Grow wk8/9, and the Big "2"

2010-08-21T14:19:00.000-04:00

Can you say "WOW"? Life has been absolutely crazy...Mr.Smile's is over 2 months old already :(, my baby girl Boo just turned "2" , and the little Pumpkin is almost 5!! Time is flying by!! We recently celebrated the girls 2nd and 5th Birthdays (Pumpkin a bit early)...and for a "BIG" surprise we rented a fire truck that serves frozen custard. Yes, a real truck!!! We had 17 kids under 5 at our house (we do not have a big house) sooooo a big "Thank You God" for making it a gorgeous and memorable event!!

Boo does not always do well with crowds and is very easily overwhelmed she spent most of the day in Mommy's arms or near by.

Pumpkin on the other hand could not wipe the smile off her face!! Awww...to be "5" again..she was one happy little girl!! She got to spend the day with all her friend, have a real fire truck show up at her house, eat all the frozen custard she wanted, open presents (even though we said don't bring any...no on listened!!), and just run around like a kid!! Mommy and Daddy couldn't have wished for anything more for their sweet little girls (although we do wish Boo showed a little more enthusiasm). I'm sure she will when she turns "5" :) If my memory serves me correctly on Pumpkins 2nd B-day she only opened 2 gifts and made it a week long event!!

Yes, there was even a Dalmatian!!

Now onto my little man :)!!! Sorry buddy but week 8 is a bit of a blur and few pictures were taken but I did manage to sneak a few in there!! Your hair is looking a bit red? hmmm...maybe more like Mommy's?? Eyes are still blue...and eating like a champ!! In your spare time you like to read books (see below), ham it up for the camera, and giggle!! Yes, you giggle!!

The floor is one of Mr. Smiles favorite places to lay. Unfortuantely, this only happens on rare occasions (when big sister Boo is not around) she loves to squeeze and poke!! Not a good combo!!

9 Weeks Mr. Smiles!!

Full of life and full of smiles :)

"3 Little Monkeys" enjoying a little R&R with Daddy!!

Watch Me Grow 7wks

2010-08-04T22:43:00.000-04:00

7 Weeks....and the theme for this week should be "nothing but love"!!

Especially sisterly love...

Yep, this picture say's it all big sister K.bear thought you needed a few toys to play with...not so sure you felt the same!! :)

You did forgive her obviously, since you are sitting quite contently on her lap...this was a rare photo op I might add as most of the time she is trying to squeeze the life out of you. "Monkey See, Monkey Do" after a short while on K.bear's lap typically Pumpkin gets the last minutes of squeeze time!! Pumpkin enjoys being the oldest as she knows it has certain perks...a.k.a 'trust'!!

I just love the baby pudge!! You are filling out the car seat just fine...and missing very few feedings these days. You are staying awake for longer periods of time and enjoying a little 'play time' ..

Snug as a bug!!

You went on your first wagon ride!! You also had your first big sleep over with 'big' cousin Jeffrey!! More and more firsts everyday...Mommy just hopes I can keep up with it all. With 3 kids under 5 and two in 22 months life is certainly happy chaos. Wouldn't change a thing but just try to capture it all!!

Watch Me Grow 5/6 weeks

2010-07-26T15:54:00.006-04:00

6 Weeks already!! Good news...I also think I have finally settled on a 'blogger name' up until now I have been referring to the little guy as 'peanut' (which is sort of false advertising since I can pretty much guarantee he is pushing 12 lbs) but without further ado meet "Mr. Smiles"!! As his personality comes out more and more each day....this boy loves to smile :)

We have been busy taking big sister Pumpkin to swim lessons M-F for the past 2 weeks...quite the commitment I might add!! She did awesome and is now a level '2'!! She loves to practice in Nonna and Papa's pool. Below Papa is teaching Pumpkin how to float...Mommy can't even do that one :) K.Bear and Mr. Smiles were very, very good through all the lessons. K.Bear ate snacks and enjoyed playing in the baby pool...while Mr. Smiles slept or just enjoyed the warm breeze off of the lake. The weather has been ridiculously hot these days 90's with near 100% humidity, yuck!!!

I'm seeing blond? Blond hair that is if you look closely you can see a few wispy hairs on my bald baby's head :) My children rarely have hair before they are two!!

Mr. Smiles attended his first wedding for a 2nd cousin of his.

He was such a good boy....nursed..slept...smiled..nursed..slept...."Thanks for not getting us kicked out of there little guy"!! We were home by 10:30PM (real party animals I know..) he was all tuckered out at the end and slept until 3:00AM

5 weeks old...Mr. Smiles enjoyed his first over night stay on the boat!! He did quite well all things considered. There isn't quite anything like a rocking boat and some fresh air to make a baby sleep!!

This picture is for Daddy the "Miss Geico" boat makes Daddy drool with excitement!!

Those are some big blue eyes after a nice warm bath!! Mr. Smiles loves bath time ...and mommy loves the smell of a nice clean baby :)

Watch Me Grow 4 wks

2010-07-14T13:56:00.003-04:00

1 month old already!! I can't believe it....time certainly does fly the older one gets!! As a child it seemed like a year could last forever now it seems as though one year quickly leads to the next....

We did it...finally took you on the boat that is!! What a trooper we went out 2 days in a row and even got stuck in a storm on the second day. You slept great, ate wonderfully, and just enjoyed the fresh air. A true water baby already!!

Catching some more zzzzz's as the air off the lake blows threw the windows of the boat. O'how I love that little sweet heart mouth and those squeezable cheeks of yours!!

Finally, another picture with your eyes open :) when you are awake you are eating and when your not eating you are sleeping. O'the life of a new born!!

The booster seat in our kitchen is one of the only "safe" places big sister Boo can't get to you easily. Boo loves to squeeze and poke you....Mommy and Daddy must watch her every minute!!! Big sister Pumpkin is starting to get a bit more confident in holding you so Mommy has a feeling there will be some close eyes on her in the near future as well.

Enjoying a little bath time!! This was your first bath in the big tub...thus far we have bathed you in the sink!! However, your getting a bit long to fit in there these days and not to mention you are very slippery when wet!!

It has been a blast watching you this past month grow into a little person...you love to be held and cuddle lots (at times this makes it very difficult to get much of anything else done around the house). Mommy tries to enjoy these moments as I know they too will go by quickly. Boo's new word is "fuss" if that says anything.. :) You have turned over a number of times from your tummy to your back (mostly out of anger) but none the less it has been funny watching such a little baby roll....

Keep on rolling baby...because there are many, many more milestones to come!!

Watch Me Grow Wk 3

2010-07-06T15:49:00.005-04:00

Well my little man is now 3 weeks old....

I have enjoyed him sooo much!! I realized I have very few pictures of him awake because when he is awake he is nursing and when he is not nursing Im taking pictures of him sleeping! The little guy enjoyed his first trip to the zoo....well I'm not so sure he enjoyed it he slept through most of it. Big sister Pumpkin and big sister Boo certainly did enjoy themselves though. The weather was gorgeous; 70's, sunny, with a cool breeze....I probably would have slept too if I could have!

I've decided boy clothes are very shall I say 'blah' everything is blue, white, red, yellow, and green. Everything is simple, simple, simple.....so any chance I get Im putting the little guy in cute outfits with hats to spice things up a bit!! He might not think this is so cute down the road so believe me I'm taking full advantage of it now :)

Can you say BUSTED!!!

So yes, I did catch him with his thumb in his mouth but I have not seen it since...I actually thought it was super sweet even though the thought of breaking that habit made my stomach turn. The Peanut is recognizing our voices and smiling nearly on cue...I love his little giggles and snorts when he is dreaming....he is wearing mostly 0-3 mo clothes and growing like a weed!! He still has his baby acne and the heat these past few days (90 plus degrees) is certainly not helping!!

We love you little man and love watching you grow!!

Watch Me Grow!!

2010-06-28T13:10:00.003-04:00

Yes, Peanut is my 3rd baby in less than 5 years so in my attempt to capture those special moments....this baby is going digital!! Sad to say I have not printed a single picture of this little guy....but have taken well over 150 in less than 2 weeks....

Here he is 1 week old and sleeping like an angel!! Still doing 2-4 hour stretches...nursing like a champ...and quite the little cuddle bug :)

Peanut sleeps in Mommy and Daddy's room snug as a bug in a cozy bassinet handed down from his Great Aunt Karen. This bassinet has been used by 3 second cousins, 2 siblings, 1 friend, and 1 cousin....and still looks amazing!! Peanut sleeps so quietly that he will likely be in our room for quite sometime....unlike big sister K.Bear who got the "boot" at 2 weeks old!!

Our little man is now 2 weeks old (tear)!!! He has a touch of baby acne...the first of our children to ever have this...poor little guy!! Peanut weighs probably a good 9lbs (we weighed him using Daddy's fishing scale)!!

Baby Blues....nope not me!! Im talking about Peanuts eyes :) they still look blue?!? Yes, this could change but it would be neat to have one blue eyed baby!! Either way those eyes are big just like his sisters!!! We are out of newborn diapers...onto size 1's and cloth!!! Yep, bring on those Fuzzy Bunz!!! Peanut is even growing out of some of his newborn clothes already (another tear!!)....I have a feeling my baby boy is going to grow up very fast!!

Hope you have enjoyed the latest in our "boy adventure" and we look forward to sharing more with you soon!!

Welcome to our Family!!!

2010-06-24T19:34:00.004-04:00

Well....no big surprise I am way behind these days on posts

but what can I say other than I am one busy Mommy... 3 kids under 5....yep "3" we welcomed our sweet baby boy into our family June 12, 2010 at 8:14 AM!!!

"Peanut"
weighed 8lbs and was 20.5in long

Big Sister Pumpkin was thrilled to pieces to welcome her new brother and could hardly wait to hold him. As Pumpkin says "I will not share him with anyone just my family".

Big Sister "Boo" took a bit longer to warm up to the idea...she did not like seeing Mommy at the hospital and was not sure what to make of this baby everyone was making a fuss over. However, I'm happy to say that by the time we got home....she took to the "big sister" roll like a champ!!!

Peanut has been my best sleeper yet!!! Whoohoo for 3-4 hour stretches!! He nurses like a champ and has a wonderful disposition. I love his big baby blue eyes...his button nose...skinny little legs...and super soft chubby cheeks!! O'how... I love him and love being a mom to "3" wonderful children!!!

Welcome to the world...and welcome to our crazy family!!

Did you know...?

2010-04-07T12:40:00.003-04:00

Did you know that the "Music Man" that comes down our street doesn't actually just play music?

Yep, the cat is out of the bag...Pumpkin broke the news to me the other night....

Pumpkin: "Mommy, its not really just a music man he sells ice cream too!"
Me: "Really?!"
Pumpkin: "full of giggles"

I guess it was time she is 41/2 ....so I did what any nice mommy would do and promised her an ice cream the next time the truck went down our street!! Let me tell you Pumpkins hearing is just fine....you have never seen a little girl so excited....

Of coarse I grabbed the camera ...
Here is Pumpkin waiting ever so patiently to get her first ice cream off the truck..

She picked a chocolate covered (of coarse) ice cream ..paid the man $1.50 and her smile could have lit up a room....she just kept saying "I just don't know how we caught the ice cream man mommy"!!

Here is our proud girl enjoying every last bit of her ice cream careful not to waste any ....nor get any on her pretty dress.

Be sure to stay tune for future ice cream adventures!!

A Mothers Purse!!

2010-03-04T20:17:00.017-05:00

A few weeks back I was cleaning out my purses (yes, plural) and I got to thinking.....

as my husband walked in the room saying; "are you are still doing that? I can't believe you had all 'that' in there!" A mothers purse is like a black hole; it is a story waiting to be told, and is a common denominator that so many of us carry.

We have that first bouncing baby and can't wait to bring that diaper bag with us everywhere we go...everything is packed in it but the kitchen sink. We pack extra clothes, diapers, wipes, pacifiers (sterilized of coarse), bottles, cups, a snack for mom...you name it mommy's got it!!

Then, baby number 2 comes along we are determined to lose the bag altogether or at least "shrink" it!! A diaper, a baggie of wipes, 1 outfit for the youngest one (praying the oldest doesn't have an accident), a snack for the older sibling, and our wallet....bam we are out the door!!

I can honestly say something happens between 1, 2, 3 + kids...the mother becomes wiser? Or is it we just rely more on faith....boy do I pray a lot when I walk out the door these days :)

Dear God,
I brought 1 diaper (although, Im carting around 2 in diapers) a few wipes, 1 snack to share, a sippy cup for the first one who asks, and 1 extra outfit in case someone needs it "boy, I hope it fits"....and no toys for entertainment "we are walking entertainment!" Yep, 6 months pregnant, a 4 yr old going on 14, a 18 mo old comedian, and my friends 9 mo old (Peaches) that I babysit for daily...who needs toys?. People really do try to figure out how I gave birth to all of these children....it is hysterical!! O'yes, dear God...I almost forgot ....please keep us safe on this adventure today and pray that I make it back in time for naps!!!
Amen!!!!

I might add....I really do go out packing just enough in a purse (not a bag) for 3 kids!!!

However, my favorite stories are the untold ones lying in the bottom of my purse...a 1/2 eaten sucker stuck on the bottom, the loose change because I certainly didn't have enough hands to put the money back where it belongs, the 100s of receipts, the random sock someone decided they no longer wanted to wear, the 12 pony holders because heaven forbid they keep them in their hair, the hand sanitizer, the paci (certainly not clean..at this point), a random book, and did I mention the 30 wrappers from snacks I swore I would never buy just to keep my kids quiet in a store!!!

So next time you look at your purse and think...."What a mess!!!" Just think of all those untold stories of your little ones!!

PreK Preview

2010-02-12T06:10:00.006-05:00

We have officially hit the 2 week mark of our "homeschool journey". All I have to say is "Im loving it"!!! My husband even said last night "its crazy how happy Pumpkin is since she has been out of school"!! I love not running around like a chicken with my head cut off..drop off, pick up, lunch, nap, clean up, dinner, blah, blah, blah!! I love all the family (sister time) that homeschooling has provided us with!! I love that Pumpkin is growing by leaps and bounds...yes, even as mommy as her teacher (counting to 30, starting to read...) I love that she is happy!!

I usually write about our homeschooling adventures on my weeexplorers blog, but since it has consumed my life the past 2 weeks I figured it was only fitting to post a bit on my "mommy journey/life" blog. Of course I had to add a picture of the little "Boo" in here too!! She is loving tot-school with mommy, cuddle times with sissy, circle time, snack, and just being an 18 month old!!!

A special thanks to all of my friends, supportive family, and blogger friends that have finally encouraged me to take the plunge...I truly didn't know if I would/could do it!!! Now, I can't imagine not....

Munchie Mug Give Away

2010-02-09T06:25:00.009-05:00

Boy, I forgot how much I LOVE blogging :)

This morning I even got back into the "give-aways" Im not a very lucky person by nature so it always shocks me when/if I win anything :) this one certainly does look fun though!! Check out Mama to 3 Blessings for more on the Munchie Mug.

With soon to be 3 kids of my own under 5 and babysitting another (under 5) the snacks get out of control!! If it is spill proof it is for me....don't forget to check it out!!

February Challenge "Family"

2010-02-03T21:55:00.003-05:00

February is well upon us and it is time for my "12 months of bliss" challenge update!! In January my New Years challenge was "focus"....and Im happy to say that is just what I did!! :) At times it was not easy and life has its way of taking over...

One of the things I focused most on was my "time" and how it was spent. Whom do I spend the most time with? What is important to me? When life got crazy it was like a breath of fresh air to "focus" on the here and now...rather than the whats to come. Sometimes, we get so caught up in the what would of should of been we virtually lose the here and now!

Bring me to my "February challenge" :) Family!!! Whether you are married, single, have 1 child or 20....we all have one "family"!! I am choosing to focus solely on my immediate family at this time...mainly my husband and children. I do not come from a large family nor does my husband but "family" is something I hold very near and dear to my heart. God chose the family we have for us...they make us laugh..they make us cry...they make us just plain crazy at times!! The fact is that it was the one chosen for you so make the best of it!!

In choosing to focus on my little family I do this not to exclude Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, and Cousins but simply to make the foundation of our home stronger. As wonderful as families can be they are also unintentionally the center of many disagreements. When a husband and wife marry it is then that "one officially leaves the nest" so to speak....this does not mean you abandon those who raised you simply put "you start a new". You look to those who raised you for continued guidance, love, and support...but in a new light!!

Bringing me to why a solid foundation is crucial in building your family. You only get one shot!!! Do it right!!

Who do you want your children to turn to when they are grown?

Who do you want your children to associate with now? In the future?

How can you best see that your children find comfort in coming to you?

The best gift to a child is a good marriage....so don't forget that husband :) show appreciation, love, support, communicate, communicate, communicate, and see that each others spiritual, sexual, and social needs are being met. You will never hear me refer to my husband as my child...he is not!! I am not responsible for him...we are simply coaches for a great team!! A team that has 2 sweet little girls and a little bouncing baby boy coming in June!! We coach together and with one great vision...a solid foundation!!!

Reflections of Haiti ...

2010-01-14T06:16:00.007-05:00

Since Christmas we have had many conversations in our home about those less fortunate than ourselves. Pumpkin has asked many questions...ok....many, many, many!!! Where do poor people sleep? What do they eat? What do kids play with if they do not have any toys? The list goes on. As a parent and as a mother we often "think" of those less fortunate, but the depth to which some people are poor can truly be unimaginable.

10 years ago I was blessed with the opportunity to go to Haiti on a mission trip. I feel Haiti is truly one of the most unlucky countries in the world. If it is not one thing it is another!

My heart physically aches for those poor people. When on my mission trip I virtually came home with nothing I brought; other than the clothes on back. I gave away everything!!! When you look in a childs' face and they are happy to have a water bottle to fill a leaky hole in their house...one can certainly not turn their back. So many of the Haitian people were in such need of help before this terrible earthquake that something of this magnitude is sure to leave the entire country shaken for many years to come. Haiti will never be the same as it once was... or what it someday might have been!!!

What I admire most about the Haitians is although they have nothing, and came from virtually nothing....two things hold true; their faith and love of family!!! Shaken, distraught, and in complete despair....searching for loved ones, and trying to help those in need with truly no resources at hand. Can you imagine? What do you hold onto at times like that...well we have seen it on TV by now and read it in papers "Faith". I love that a country so torn to shambles can sing praises, worship, and come together!!! I witnessed it 10 years ago watching children sing in school, worshiping on Sunday, and singing in the streets all day/everyday. Walking miles to the river singing with buckets on their heads...could you do the same?

Although Haiti is not lucky...they are rich beyond words in Faith. What a gift to the rest of the world to watch a country with so little come together. I pray that someday the Haitian people will find rest and reap great reward for all that they have accomplished just "living" their lives!! A part of me will forever remain in Haiti and with all of the wonderful people I met along the way!!!

12 Months of Bliss Challenge

2010-01-05T14:24:00.003-05:00

The New Year is off and running and I have decided that this year instead of making a "resolution" that is sure to be broken in no time I am going to try something a bit different for 2010. Im hoping some of you will join me in doing the same!!!

I am going to set a monthly goal....something for me to work on, work toward, and/or strive for!! These will be different each month and I hope to share them with all of you to help hold me accountable!! Will call it "12 months of bliss"!!

January's Goal is "focus"...I am going to work on focusing more on my priorities!! What is important? What can go by the way side? What sucks up most of my valuable time in a day? How can my time be more efficiently used?

In my mission to "focus" I will also explore with who do I want to spend time with..who is important in my life...how should my God given days be spent?

Some of these I can answer now of coarse...but it is not all about answers it is about doing!! Walking the path...doing the act....making it happen!!! It is easy to get caught up in life's day to day chaos losing sight of who, what, and where we are going.

I am super excited to embark on this journey and "focus" on the things in my life that REALLY matter...not the he said, she said....should of ....would of....could of.....put the rubber to the rubber to the road and lets get moving!!!

In An Instant

2009-11-24T06:22:00.007-05:00

Boom..it finally hit me last night as I lay there quietly putting Pumpkin to bed!! "In An Instant" that is what I will call my blog entry!! I have pondered about how to best write this blog entry for weeks. Finally ,God put it in my heart or maybe it was "finally" I started listening again?

As I lay there so still and quiet..the thoughts came running like water. How quickly our lives change "In An Instant" we hit bumps in the road, whip around sharp curves, and if we're lucky steer clear of those ever famous pot holes!! Well, at least that is how my life works.

6 weeks ago I thought.."hmmm I should take a pregnancy test" I have only had 2 cycles since I had K.Bear in August of 2008 so this was not out of the norm for me. I had a dollar store test sitting in the closet pulled it out "just in case" and yep, you guessed it 2 lines, clear as day, "O'my" how could this be? Shock, absolutely!! I know how babies are made this is after all 3rd!! Although, I had always dreamed of 4 the more life turned into reality 2 just seemed like "that's it"!! Well, apparently God had different plans for our family than even we knew. That's it "In An Instant" my life as "Pumpkin and K.Bear's Mommy" changed to mommy of "3"!!

Life hands us opportunities and challenges all in which we are to "trust"!! I think it is safe for me to officially say that I have finally adapted to the idea that "yes, I am pregnant". Going from dizzy vertigo spells, to shingles, to being pregnant...this has really been hard for me to swallow!!! I just kept saying "what is God thinking?" A very good friend of mine said it best "God does give us more than we can handle so we put our "trust" in him"!!

Fall

2009-10-30T09:46:00.004-04:00

We have been enjoying our Fall and Pumpkin is already talking endlessly about Christmas!! O'how I love these ages!! The curious minds, the busy little bodies, the excitement and joy in my kids eyes just makes me smile.

However, this time of year I dread being stuck in doors in the cold, damp, gray weather!! My girls love the outdoors..digging in dirt, swinging outside, playing in water, and just running free!! Although, I do have to say the cuddling, movie/pop corn nights, and just the shear togetherness that this time of year brings is very nice too!! I guess that's why God gives us seasons...just as we are tired of one and feeling exhausted..."boom" time for a change.

I keep saying "this is going to be a long winter". We have many friend who have already been sick and are currently sick....and the cold weather has just begun!! I am going to plan for the worst and hope for the best. So I have added yet another "to do" on my never ending "to do" list I have decided to make up some "sick day" "blah day" busy bins for those days you are stuck in doors with no clue what to do!!

Stay tune in November for a big announcement!!

"Me" dicine

2009-10-02T07:03:00.002-04:00

Our days have been filled with shear chaos to put it mildly. I am still having dizzy episodes and now this past weekend I was diagnosed with shingles. Preschool is well under way, homeschooling is going great, and we are enjoying all that life has to offer. However, I am starting to think it is a bit much! I know I have been saying that for awhile. "Somethings got to go" but my health doesn't seem to be getting any better and the Drs. can't seem to figure out what is going on so...time for some "me" dicine of my own!! Could it be stress? Over exhaustion? Years of sleep deprivation? Who knows .....

What I do know is apparently when we don't listen to God the first time he will speak louder! Well, I got the message (I hope) slow down, ask for help, say "no" to myself, say "no" to others, simplify life, and re-organize my priorities. All of those things are easy to type but not a single one is easy to fulfill.

One of my good friends put it best "this ought to be interesting ...in all the years I have known you ...you have never done just one thing". We were laughing and make fun of it of coarse. I can be pretty crazy at times!! (I'm sure I'm not the only one out there like this...I hope!) However, what a true statement that was "I have never done just one thing". Since I turned 16 I have always had multiple jobs, served in multiple volunteer positions, done mission trips, over committed myself, and virtually have lived my life serving and pleasing others. I think although those are all good things God truly does want us to think of ourselves too at times.

Have you taken any "Me" dicine lately? This is surely going to be a process and if anyone is in the same or similar boat to me I would love to have company :). After all misery loves company right? I say that lightheartedly because although I know asking for help, change, and a few other minor adjustment are necessary this will truly be torture for me.

I started this weekend if someone offered help...I didn't push away for the first time EVER I said "OK". I delegated, accepted meals, and anything else that came my way. I surely am not a pity party person and HATE for people to feel sorry for me. However, as another friend told me this weekend "in order to be a good giver you also need to be a good receiver".

I leave you with that thought there is surely much more to come in this new journey of life. For the first time in a long time... it is "me" time! O'boy that was even hard to type let alone accept!!

Diaper Dooty

2009-09-21T22:24:00.001-04:00

You know me by now!! I love give aways ....especially diaper give aways!! Win FREE Bum Genius...come join me in the fun!! I hope I win but I'll be sure to wish you luck as well :)

Pumpkin Turns "4"

2009-09-21T20:57:00.004-04:00

My sweet little girl turned the big "4" yesterday 9/20/09

She is thrilled to pieces to be a "big girl" !!

As her mom I couldn't be more proud of her she is a gentle spirit, mommy's helper, a social butterfly, a ball of energy, sure to never miss a dime, and truly one of God's little blessings!!

Pumpkin was born 9.20.05 at 4:20AM 6 lbs 9 oz 19in long

She adopted the nick name Pumpkin almost the minute she was born with her full cheeks and big brown eyes (don't forget the dimple).

I have found myself wondering more times than not lately...Where has time gone? And....Please God make it SLOW DOWN!!!

Listening to the radio in the car the other day a song came on the radio it was an instant flash back of my own childhood (all to realize....O'NO...could it be....this song was on the oldie station...ahhhhh!!) So of coarse I did what any cool mom would do with no kids in the car I quickly changed the channel to a new "dance" station just to realize the fast talking song I was listening to had a nice beat but the words? Ugh!! Well we'll save that for a rainy day :)

As time passes quickly I feel the need to capture every minute with my husband, children, and family. I find myself reflecting on the important things in life, where am I going, what have I done, what do I want my children to remember, so many thoughts so little time. Time is of the essence!! So grab your little ones and give them a squeeze...because 1 soon becomes 2 ...2 becomes 3 and before you know....BAM "4"!! Something happens at "4" they are no longer baby's that need swaddling and no longer toddlers with tantrums...they are "little people"!!

Among Pumpkins many accomplishment these days some of her biggest and most memorable are swimming under water in Nonna and Papa's pool. The girl loves to swim and she is so proud of this new accomplishment. She learned to pump a swing this Summer saving mommy's arm at the park :) . She is writing her name, learning that letters make words, and things are just starting to "click"! With preschool, homeschool, and soccer this girl has one crazy schedule...but she wouldn't have it any other way. Rarely, is there a day that goes by that she doesn't ask "what are we doing today?"

With such grace, love, and kindness Pumpkin you make me smile everyday!! You are loved more than you could ever know. Your sweet disposition and love for life is unbelievably catchy. Watching you grow into quite the "little lady" although it makes me sad to watch the time pass so quickly I rest assured knowing this; you will grow up to do great things, be blessed, love God, love others, bless others, and live life to its absolute fullest!!

O'Boy!!

2009-09-11T06:38:00.003-04:00

So yes, Monday was Labor Day but we had our own "Labor Day" around here Tuesday/Wed! Good friends of ours welcomed their first son much to everyones surprise 5 weeks early, my sister and brother in law welcomed another boy to the family, and the funny part is I know of 3 other boys born this week with one more nephew on the way anytime now!! Can you say "O'BOY"!!!

Welcome my sweet little nephew (he doesn't have a blogger name yet :)

6 lbs 11 oz, 19in
3:30 AM 9/9/09

Introducing Peaches!!

2009-09-08T05:45:00.002-04:00

These days have been filled with fun, excitement, and a whole lot of craziness!! I have not had much time to blog :( but there certainly has not been a shortage of activity in our home. I have started another babysitting/nanny position full time watching my friends sweet little "Peach" she is almost 4 months old and has been a real delight to welcome into our house!

I have waited until now to blog about her because I couldn't come up with the perfect "blogger name" for her. After a short visit to a local Peach Festival in the area I thought "I've got it" "Peaches!"

Pumpkin just can't get enough of Peaches she hugs her, kisses her, feeds her, and just can't wait until the next day she is back here! I think she has inherited her mothers love of baby's and caring for them. If I have never mentioned before how much Pumpkins personality reminds me of myself well here it is in writing!!

K.Bear has adapted well to our new little friend in the house too! I was a bit worried she would be jealous of a new baby around (the little ones are only 9 months apart after all) but she has done remarkably well. She dives right in and can't wait to play with her!!

Welcome Peaches into our home and we hope you like it here as much as we like having you around :)

Feeling Appreciated

2009-08-25T06:04:00.005-04:00

I love those days when you feel like something you have done, made, or helped out with is appreciated!!

Thanks to Cheryl a fellow blogger/homeschooler/and etsy customer for blogging about my "Birthday Bones"!!

Im so glad Lucy loved it!!!

Spinning By...Vertigo

2009-08-22T06:28:00.004-04:00

These days lately are spinning by for me....literally!! I have had vertigo for 1 week today!! I have thought of every possible cause minor to serious and everything in between!! I have talked to others who have had it, read about it, and am virtually grasping at nothing. Been to the Dr. and the Chiropractor... please just stop spinning!!! I have been joking that I am on my own personal boat but let me be the first to tell you it is no picnic.

Chasing after kids trying....I do mean "trying" to keep the house tidy (I failed hopelessly at that this week) I just did not have the strength, energy, drive, or balance for that matter. Thanks to my mom for ever so graciously offering to come help next Wednesday :)

Spinning by ...but life must go on....I have thought about this a lot in my "dizzy" little head these past few days!! Sure I would love to lay on the couch, sleep and just close my eyes (that does stop the spinning). However, the show must go on!! I have 2 little ones and a husband that are counting on me. Maybe this is God's way of saying "slow down sister"!! With that said I will continue to be "wife" and "mommy" of coarse but that list of what is a "must do" "have to do" "want to do" "say yes to everything" "pleaser personality" is going to have to "slow down"!!

So my hope for you is that you too can look at what is important in your life? How you spend your time? Is it having meaningful conversations with your kids? Or worrying about the cloud of dust covering your TV? Your kids aren't going to care that the TV is dusty (he/she will like writing his/her name in it..) I say this NOT ONLY as a challenge to you but to myself as well!!

Let my "spinning" be a lesson to all on how quickly life "spins past us"!! I invite you to spin back into the circle of what really matters!!

K. Bear is "1" Today!!

2009-08-04T05:54:00.006-04:00

My baby is "1" today!!! With this comes much joy, excitement, and sadness.....a true milestone, a mark of new beginnings and past reflections. We are certainly enjoying our little "Boo"!!

Her spunky attitude, her huge smile that can fill a room, her sassy jabber, her big brown eyes with gorgeous eyelashes, and so much zest for life you can't help but want to squeeze her!!

As I reflect back on this day 1 year ago...I remember it like it was yesterday:
an unplanned Dr's appointment around lunch time....(midwife "maybe we'll have a baby"....me "NO, we WILL have a baby today")

Walk a few stairs at home....put Pumpkin down for a nap...make some zucchini bread (contracting for 2 hours every 2-10 min)..hmmm is this labor? Call hubby....put him on alert. Hubby works a full day comes home.....says "well, your water didn't break yet!"

NOTE: We were waiting for my water to break since that is what signaled "baby is coming" the first go around...contractions every 2-10 min was not a sign to me...just a nuisance!! :)

Feed Pumpkin dinner...call midwife...off to the hospital....

contractions...STOP!! What? How can this be? Walking the halls...missing my little one at home...Nonna brings her up so she can walk the halls with mommy :)...

Midwife; "how about you hop in the shower for a bit to get things moving" Me; "I hated, HATED the shower with my first delivery" ....this time LOVED IT!! Hopped in at around 10:00ish....out about 10:45 .....hardly standing, gripping the wall...

The Nurse; "sweetie, you want your epidural?" inching my way to the bed....checked....almost complete....prep the room....hustle and bustle about me...trying to breath...no epidural here....and baby came in 1 hour from the time I got out of the shower!! "ITS A GIRL"

Moving forward:
Boo loves her Mommy, loves to play with Daddy, and can't get enough of her big sissy!! Miss Independent....wears more food than she actually eats, will nurse until she 5 if I let her (not happening by the way...any tips on weaning I'd love them!!), has 3 teeth (4 on the way), says "Mama, Dada, o'wow, waves "hi" "bye", uh-oh, yum (um), stands on everything, climbs everything, and loves toilet paper!!

Will Boo be our last baby? I do not know...a question asked daily by friends, family, and even myself...but what I can say is she is a true joy, a blessing, Gods gift, and I can't imagine my life without her!!!

Practice what you preach.."NO-itis"

2009-07-28T06:45:00.004-04:00

Yep, I have had another one of those "aaaahhhaaa" moments on "practicing what I preach"!! We all know the importance of saying "NO". We are taught from a very young age:

When a stranger offers you candy .....you say "NO"
When a friend is doing something bad and wants you to join...you say "NO"

I have come to realize the older I get the word "NO" has taken on ever changing meanings. "No, Thank You", "No, I can't", and just plain "NO". As a mother it is important to teach our children "NO" so they don't get hurt, hurt someone else, or don't get in a sticky situation. What happens when they are adults? Can they still say "NO".

Lately, I have been suffering from "No-itis". I like to take on the world, never say "No", and "think" I can do it all!! Well, reality check...Im not super mom, not perfect, and can not "do it all". I am taking some time and "weeding" through the "chaos". With August quickly approaching, school around the corner, and a billion other things going on. Now is the time, what kind of example would I be setting for my children if I continue to go the pace Im running?

My current chaos;
Watching kids(ages 8, 7, a new one coming soon 10 weeks..plus my 2 little ones!!)
Cleaning houses 2 x's a mo
Hair bow business
Dog Bone business
cooking, cleaning, homeschooling, playdates, fieldtrips, and 100's more!!

So some future weeding that is going to occur in our house;
Im cutting back....yep!! And it is in writing now so someone please hold me accountable :)

Im going to drop down to watching only the baby...
Cleaning will stay that is my 2 "days out"
hair bows and bones will stay
Pumpkin is going to school this Fall M, W, F (and we will homeschool T, Th)
1 frield trip a month, 2 playdates a mo
Soccer starts in the Fall
Looking at hiring someone to clean...I know isn't that funny :P
I will cook and freeze meals

That is enough weeding for now...I'll keep you posted on my progress and how I am able to shorten my list of "to-do's" and "just say NO"!! Wish me luck...I hate saying "NO"!!! And for all of those that know me personally get ready to hear it more!!!

H-E-L-P

2009-07-18T06:19:00.004-04:00

The other day my littlest one woke up from a nap as I was heading up the stairs from switching laundry (as always) my oldest said "mommy I'll get her". All was quiet, a few giggles, and then I walked into the baby's room to find "2" munchkins in the crib!! Pumpkin climbed in and was playing with K.Bear. How did she get in? Of coarse she couldn't get out and needed help....which included whining....complaining..."I'm stuck".......carry on... carry on..

This past week I was flying solo my hubby was away on business and I had a list of things a mile long to accomplish, juggle, and tackle. I was brought back to this crib incident frequently throughout the week and thinking how ironic it is that when my oldest needs help with something I'm quick to say "just ask for h-e-l-p" but at what point do we as mothers think we can "do it ourselves"?

I am a stubborn, do it myself, thanks for the offer, big plans...kinda gal and when I ask for help that must mean I really need it or I might lose my marbles. I'm happy to say with a little help from our wonderful neighbors I accomplished, survived, and enjoyed most of my week. A few bed time agggghhhhhhsss....but for the most part success!!

The to do list is still ... 10 miles long but someday it will get done!! And yes, that is my oldest with a paci in her mouth goofing around!! :)

Toilet Pond?

2009-07-11T06:46:00.005-04:00

As I was down stairs (rinsing out dirty diapers) yesterday; my darling husband was outside working, and the girls were upstairs "playing" !! It was not until I came around the corner that my 3 year old giggling non-stop says "ummmmm ummm ummm K's in the potty". Racing to the bathroom to see what the little stinker has done....to find a toilet paper covered (almost 1 yr. old) and water everywhere. I still can not figure out who did what or how!! They sure did think it was funny though!!!

I know Im not the first Mom to ever have a playing in the potty story but Im just thankful the water was clean or I would have freaked out!!

Mirror Image

2009-07-03T21:28:00.003-04:00

I have never been one to really look at a child and say "O'you look like ____" "O' you have so in so's eyes". I have always held firm that a child is born to look like him or herself and no-one else.

We are all unique, special, gifts from God...no 2 are the same!!

Then......

I took these pictures....O'my it was like looking at a picture of myself...(SCARY!) It was a mirror image....my baby days looking back at me! People have often said how much K.Bear resembles me and until this day I never saw it!!

Children are great not only do we get to be a kid again with our kids....but we get to see ourselves in a new light. A mirror image looking back in time. How did we act? What interests did we have? Were we good? How did our parents see us? A mirror does not lie!!

Whether you have birth children, adopted children, foster children, or no children at all....this can hold true! The next time you look at a child think of it as Gods way of showing you yourself. Keep it real what did he intend for you to do? Are you doing it?

In the everyday craziness it is easy to get caught up in the moment and not appreciate the "todays"!! I think it is also important to mention the tomorrows and yesterdays!!

Ladybug Give-Away Winner

2009-06-28T06:45:00.005-04:00

Congrats to NinaBunk!!!

I used random.org you are the winner of "1" Ladybug hair clippie!!!
Thank you to all of you who entered I enjoyed reading your comments I will likely do more give-a-ways in the future stay tune!!

Ladybug Give Away (repost) !!

2009-06-26T06:08:00.001-04:00

So I have never done a give away myself I always read all about them but to help "kick" things off for my new business adventures I figure "why not?" Here is how it works I will be giving away "1" lady bug hair clippie (as seen in my etsy shop....)

These are the ways you will be entered in the drawing (for multiple entries ..do 1 or why not do them ALL!!) Drawing will take place June 27th (my sisters B-day!) Good Luck!!

1) Follow me

2) Put a post on your blog and link back to mine

3) Buy ANY item in either my BowTique Etsy shop or Dog Bakery and get 1 entry for every item purchased!

Let's go "Ladies" 1, 2,3....give away starts..NOW!"

Fashion Challenge!!

2009-06-25T05:38:00.008-04:00

Something happens when you become a mother your hips change (and will never go back), your hair takes on a new texture, your patience are tested to the max, you no longer think of yourself but your focus is redirected to your child, and your sense of fashion.....gets lost in the mix too!!

Motherhood it is a beautiful thing!!

Now, onto the good stuff...(deep breath) I took this picture during my cleaning frenzy days in the Spring (my closet of DOOM!). Yep, it still looks like this (amazing..) I can be so organized in some areas and such a mess in another. To be honest, between focusing on my kids wardrobe (switching seasons...out grown clothes...) and the constant laundry pile that never goes away (the last thing I want to look at is more clothes!) I hope I'm not alone in this..I would love to hear from you!!!

Well, I have officially come to a point (I think) I'm ready to face the challenge. Maybe some of you will join me? I am going to get rid of....EVERYTHING! I mean the shoes that are out of style, the belts that don't fit over my wider more motherly hips, the shirts that some how after kids don't seem to even touch my belly button...(how does that happen)? The purses that look like I've had them since 6th grade...its all going!!! I am doing a complete closet makeover....

Now, this is where the challenge comes in...we do not have a lot of money so its not like I can just blink and go buy new stuff ....and no unfortunately I wasn't nominated for the show What Not to Wear on TLC (although if someone wanted to nominate me that would be great...LOL) I recently stumbled on some very fun resale shops in the area...(never thought I would say that). After some thought... I figured why not? I get great deals on the kids clothes at Mom 2 Mom sales so why not see what a resale/consignment shop has to offer I young mom....can you say VERY FUN!!!

So, first on the agenda.....

1) Clear it out...purging the unworn, unused, dust collecting clothes in my closet!! I will be taking some to local thrift stores/consignment stores, and good will....

2) Gather pictures of styles I like....(remember my baby brain has caused me to have this fashion brain freeze)

3) Gather Funds (I am very frugal...and do not like using money I don't have!)

4) Shop until I drop.....

I know this is something I have to do not just for the sake of a messy closet but for some inner peace as well. I have officially become that mom that buys 4 of the same shirt just in a different color!! It is no secret when you look good you feel good!! We have all been there the day you didn't get a shower and the entire day feels blah....its 8AM and you have been pooped, peed, and puked on!!

I think it is important to keep things in perspective. Motherhood is a season of life (a great journey at that). Why not make the best of it? I have been reading many books lately that led up to this sense of inspiration.....so I thought I would share a couple of my most recent;

The Duggars: 20 and Counting!: Raising One of America's Largest Families--How they Do It
Mary Kay Ash (founder of Mary Kay cosmetics...great business book)

I hope I have inspired you in some small way to look at yourself and think...."Have I let something go?" Maybe your hair? Maybe your exercise routine? Maybe your perfect ... if so I'd love to meet you! Get rid of the old...bring on the new...and take on the challenge to be the best God intended for you to be.... the best daughter, sister, wife, mother, and friend!!

Belated Fathers Day!!

2009-06-22T06:24:00.004-04:00

When thinking of the word "Dad" or "Father"..What do you think of?

Chances are you think of your own...probably some crazy memory, some old saying, a habit he has/or had, a hobby he does....I hope this past Father's Day you spent some time reflecting on your own Dad and appreciating his many talents, blessings, and gifts that he has shown you....

This fathers Day we enjoyed a day on the boat we spent the night Sat. and had a quiet morning playing, drinking coffee, and just hanging out on the water. It was very nice! As the mom I did feel bad as though fathers day got over looked being out there...

No homemade breakfast...heck, no dinner for that matter (we got back to late)

I forgot the card....way to go mommy...LOL (those of you that know me...this is not some new occurrence in our home!)

However, a day with the family without the fuss...is really what we enjoyed....that's really what its about anyways..isn't it?

Happy Fathers Day Daddy!!

1 Up 1 to Go!

2009-06-12T06:19:00.010-04:00

I'm off and running well I wouldn't say running its sort of like at a snails pace. I got this crazy idea to make little girl hair bows and accessories and on the same day I thought I would start a dog bakery too! Yep, God has done it again (made me lose my mind)!!

Well, my business adventures started about 3 weeks ago and has proceeded to go something like this;

Research a bit in the mornings (wee mornings I might add!) on materials, licensing, pricing, etc.

* Jot down notes during the day in between changing diapers, feedings, playing, laundry, etc.

* Order supplies , send of for licensing, get websites up and going....

* And we are nearing production of both business...

Now that I would say is some major discipline or divine intervention.

I have always wanted something of my own and have waited for something to fall miraculously from the sky ...Well, let me be the first to say "it isn't going to happen"! If you are like myself, and have longed for something; all I can say is take a leap of faith, dive into what you know, and hold on for the ride!!

My main focus in all of this is my family. I am not doing either business to get rich: simply to supplement, support, and help guide my family along while having the flexibility to be with my children. I will continue to keep my ears and eyes pealed for new adventures that might be thrown my way in the future. For now I'm just going to trust God hasn't really made me lose my mind and hope to make enough to continue to stay home with my kids (o.k and maybe secretly to homeschool in the future...:)

Be sure to check out my new KiddieBowTique and I will post the dog bakery up soon!! If you have a business you have been dreaming of or one that you have started I would love to hear about it!!

bumps, bruises, O'my!!

2009-06-01T06:00:00.001-04:00

Well you know you haven't blogged lately when....your husband say's I can't believe you didn't blog about "fill in the blank"...LOL

Our little house has been keeping pretty busy these days! Summer months tend to bring about chaotic schedules in our little piece of the world. Our days are filled with out door play, exploring, and fun. At the end of the day I am whipped (so are the kiddos) AMEN for 7:00 bedtimes!! With that all being said I will now...."fill in the blank"

K.Bear fell out of her crib.....or climbed we are not really sure!!

I was out visiting with a friend who just had a baby...and got that heart stopping phone call from my very panicked husband "K fell out of her crib"....

Me: Im coming...

DH: O.K

Me: Handing back the newborn....Running like mad through the hospital to get home to my sweet little one....is she hurt? Does she have a bump?.... Does she need stitches? I knew we should have put that mattress down sooner.....(mothers guilt kicking in) I walk in the house to quiet (this is good...she stopped crying) Amazingly, thank God she is fine!!! Checking her over 1000 times....not a bump, not a bruise, nothing but a little cut on the top of her ear!! WOW!!

I might add Pumpkin climbed out of the same crib at 18 mo (on Mommy's time) so I know that thump to the ground that my poor husband had playing through his head all night. A very helpless feeling indeed when your children get hurt. We have been so blessed with only minor bumps, bruises, and scrapes I pray it stays that way because this Mama who once wanted to be a nurse...LOL has over the years developed a phobia of hospitals (I am a complete germ-a-phobe) at all cost I would like to stear clear!!

So here's to some SAFE, Fun filled Summer months!!

Paci Post

2009-05-17T05:33:00.006-04:00

I realized I forgot to share this priceless picture with all of you during my weeks of "Spring Frenzy" cleaning! Both of my girls have been paci baby's and I can never seem to find one at that moment when they are needed. As I moved the crib to dust .... low and behold there was a paci resting on an electrical plug.

So then was born the "Paci Post"!!!

This post is to pay tribute to all of those paci's in our house that have been lost, stolen, covered in dust, or just gone before us! I especially love this one of my near 3 year old with a paci in her mouth and the newborn with none!!

In an attempt to rid Pumpkin of the paci my husband and I (mostly I) tried many MANY different tactics. Some of them I shocked myself at the shear desperateness to rid her of that darn thing by her 3rd Birthday (which I might add didn't happen). I tried cutting part of the nipple off (aka:broken paci's), we tried setting limits, bought newborn ones so they would be to small for her mouth, we bought different brands, we packaged them up on her 3rd Birthday to mail them to the paci fairy, we tried, tried, and tried some more.

As Pumpkin waits anxiously on her 3rd Birthday to wait for gum to fall out of the sky from the fairy......Mommy had tears in her eyes (bye-bye paci....)! O.k so I will tell you we did not tell her the fairy was going to drop it out of the sky .....thinking quickly as parents must do! Gum really did fall from the sky .....or maybe it was thrown over the house?? She was thrilled none the less!!

The day went wonderfully until.......BED!!! O' Dear God please help us I prayed....what are we to do our little 3 year old is so deeply saddened....Yep, we caved..Paci Fairy forgot to take one!! This went on for another month until; BAM.....

Could it be? Pumpkin put her paci in the garbage (we had already tried this before...it didn't work!) This time was different "she did it"!! As bedtime neared I panicked ....but Pumpkin held strong went to bed without a fuss and said "I didn't like that fuzzy on my paci" she will still tell you today that is why she threw it away....

You got it...a piece of "DUST" AMEN!!!

As I write this I tell you this to not only share a funny little story about our many paci adventures in our home but to shed light on how precious our little ones are. Yes, even in those times of "battle of the wills". Now looking back I laugh because my stress of "that things got to go" was not because it bothered her or I (it bothered others). So in light of that be yourself, hold strong, one should not press judgment on others, and let our kids be kids!!

I thank God for Pumpkins strong will and ability to know when is "right" for her!!

"Do not judge, or you too will be judged" (Matthew 7:1)

Mean Mama

2009-05-12T06:50:00.002-04:00

We had to wait to get K.Bears ears pierced because of her surgery so I took her 2 weeks ago along with Big Sissy and K's God mother. We went to a near by outside mall Pumpkin played for a bit and then.....(need I say more?)

She was crying before they even started. In all honesty she did great (much better than expected) she stopped crying as soon as they were done. She played with her new shiny pink earrings for a second and then has never touched them since!

They are so tiny and cute (she had so much purple ink) on her ear from the women making "dots" for correct placement she looked bruised. Other than that we were off in a few minutes with some new bling in our ears and Big Sissy got a whistle bracelet that she is still enjoying!

Frenzy Book Organization

2009-05-05T05:54:00.005-04:00

Some of you will get a real chuckle out of this one...In my mission (i.e madness) to get things in order I created our new "library system" so far I must say it is working out splendidly. I could no longer handle the bookshelf as a means of organization for our kids books. Pumpkin loves to "read" and I was tired of the books getting out of order (themes). I could never find the exact one she wanted: because she does know EVERY book we own!! That left me with one option revamp the current book system and come up with something new! So below is a picture of some of the books I collected throughout the house and set on the counter.

I dragged the girls out (in the rain) I might add to the store to buy some bins (with a pocket) for labeling. I needed them on a budget, needed them to be durable, and most important I NEEDED that pocket. So I found these at Walmart for $5.50 for 2 (what a deal) only the yellow ones were that cheap the rest were $10 (I figured I could live with the yellow for that price) I bought 4 sets (8 bins)!!
I came home Pumpkin helped put all the books in piles (we had books EVERYWHERE) we sorted the books ; religious, Disney/TV, Educational (science, seasons, feelings), Family, Baby, Holidays, etc. (you get it)! What ever made sense to me. Then I assigned each "theme" a number; labeled each bin and book with the corresponding number and VOILA! Every book in our home now has a number system. When we are finished reading a book we can easily put it back in the appropriate themed basket.

No more searching for lost books, no more messy book shelf, one happy Mumma!!

Anniversary

2009-04-30T05:17:00.017-04:00

Happy 5 yr Anniversary

Cleaning Frenzy part 2 is in progress...

Today marks 5 yrs that I have been married to my o'so loving husband (we have been together for 9yrs) and boy how time has flown by! I can only imagine how the next 5,10,15,20 years will do the same. Now lets take a quick look at our time capsule thus far...

We met on a "blind date" Feb 11, 2000

Married: Friday April 30, 2004
The weather was perfect not to cold and not to hot (very windy) for most of our pictures outside someone had to hide behind my poofy dress and hold my veil down. We had a packed church (a choir of angels and priest that flew in from Italy to do our wedding) and about 150-175 guests at our reception. We spent most of the night wining, dining, and dancing!! It was truly a blessed day....

Honeymooning it!! We went on a Caribbean Cruise it was wonderful! If you have never been on a cruise I highly recommend it. We had a fabulous time swimming, snorkeling, sight seeing, and relaxing. One of the best parts of our cruise was our dinner table....we would be the first table to sit down and the last to leave!! Our "table mates" were a complete blast and still to this day we are in contact with them (I'll save that story for another day)!!

Beautiful blue sky's, pristine water, and nothing but marriage bliss....

The "happy couple" posing for a quick picture in St.Thomas! I think we worked out in those days...something happens as time goes on that comfort thing really does kick in.

Fast forward; 8 months "I'm expecting" What? How could this be? This was not in the plan...not so soon....it was not the most joyous of occasions looking back. We were filled with fear and selfishness. Excited, not really...we always wanted children (especially me), but this was not exactly how I had it planned out (I'm a planner). Well, I quickly learned God had other plans for us and thus we began to ride our wave of parenthood ....

Soon after the initial shock set in we began to prepare for our newest member of the family. We already had a dog named Ginger; so bring on the baby!!

September 20th, 2005 ; Weight 6lbs 9 oz : 20 in long!! She stole her Daddy's heart (a new cuddle buddy from the start) Soon all of the fear and tears of worry that had filled our hearts months prior were soon filled with joy, laughter, pride, and much LOVE!!! God is good!!

Welcome home our sweet little "pumpkin"

Marriage class: Back in the preparatory stages of our wedding we were required to take a marriage prep class...we had to set some 5 year goals this is what I remember of them;

1) Work on our Masters Degrees (continue with education)
2) Move (buy a bigger house)
3) Have a baby

Well, we have since accomplished 1 out of 3 (33% not to bad...)

Our life has been filled with "2's" since being married......we have had 2 dogs (we have since had to give Ginger to a Corgi Rescue...very sad she was showing aggressive behaviors towards other dogs...I began to fear she would do the same to one of my little ones!)

Welcome Teddy to our family February, 2007

We have enjoyed "2 " more cruises (babymoons) I was pregnant for both. Pumpkin enjoyed her first real cruise at 21/2 years of age...she quickly caught on that she could ask for dessert anytime of day!!

2 boats later......(can you tell our family loves the water!!) Yes, you did read that right we have a fishing boat and a "family boat" we live 5 minutes from a larger inland lake so we figure we may as well take advantage of it year round!

2 Girls later....August 4, 2008: Weighing 7lbs: 20in long

Welcome home our little "Boo"

Not bad for 5 years!! Sure, our life together has not always been marital bliss...who's is? Lets be real! I have learned to be flexible, love more, anger less, and just live life! God ultimately will guide you to where you are suppose to be!! His plan for us is greater than that which we have for ourselves. In our journey of marriage thus far we have been blessed in so many ways; we have been enjoying the curves and riding the bumps along the way. Here's to 70 more (that will only make you 100 sweetie)!!!

Cleaning Frenzy

2009-04-29T12:13:00.002-04:00

Ok the kiddos are with the sitter and I am on a mission from cleaning dirty windows to organizing wish me luck I have 3 more hrs left...check back soon to see some hopefully good before and after pics!!!

This post is for all of you that "think" I'm so organized this will assure you that I have my own "dirty little secrets"!!

WEE Review : Are Parents Really Necessary?

2009-04-24T05:49:00.002-04:00

I just finished reading another WEE Book; Are Parents Really Necessary? A Guide to Preschool Education. I was so excited when I found this WEE Book in The Old Schoolhouse store. It was as if it were written for me!

Some of you that know me personally know that homeschooling has always been a longtime standing interest of mine. I have read about it (long before I had children), researched it extensively, and prayed about it daily. Is homeschooling indeed the right choice for my family?

This little WEE book is packed and I do mean “packed” with research, statistics, and valuable information on the importance of parents in a child’s life! Especially when related to his or her education. Having one child that is of preschool age and another that will soon be trailing quickly behind I know first hand how quickly these years fly by. As any parent wants for his or her child a good education is not asking for much. That being said does the NEA (National Education Association) really have our children’s best interest at heart? Or are there underlying motives (i.e. financial gain?) Why do we send our children to school when they are barely out of diapers? Are our children indeed benefiting from this push for earlier education and longer days (i.e. full day kindergartens)? Explore these and many other “aha moments” while reading Are Parents Really Necessary? A Guide to Preschool Education.

So if you are like me and still not 100 percent certain that homeschooling is for you your families, preschool can be a great time to give it a “try”! “WEE” invite you to join us on our journey.

Sisterhood

2009-04-22T06:32:00.017-04:00

We all have them "Friends" I sat in my MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) group yesterday learning about "How to Make a Marriage Last"! It was a great talk from one of my favorite guest speakers. If you are not familiar with MOPS I can't say enough great things about it check to see if there is a group near you!! I have loved all of my MOPS mornings (2x's a mo for 3 years now!!)

Now, that being said our guest speaker brought up how our husbands minds are wired differently from ours. We all know men and women really do think differently and come on ladies lets face it your man does not like to talk nearly as much as you do! That's why we have friends. I got to thinking about all of my friends near, far, old, new, and those I long to meet in the future. Our life is full of different "seasons"! "Seasons" of change! Relationships change as God leads us on our journey of life. There are the childhood friends (you just couldn't live without), college/party friends, the parenting friends, and now thanks to the internet online friends.

In all my many "seasons" of life thus far the one friendship that has remained virtually the same is that of my younger sister. We are each others rock through thick and thin. We have survived childhood, the unpredictable years of adolescence, high school, crazy college years, marriage, and we are now in the "season" of childbearing/early childhood years. As we anxiously await the new arrival of my newest niece or nephew to our family. I tell you this not to share a great story of how wonderful my sister is; and how blessed I am to have her in my life, but to encourage you as mothers of young children to foster those sibling relationship with your little ones. Encourage your little ones to have lasting, loving relationships with their sister and/or brother. It was the best gift my parents could have ever given us!!

Now, that I am in the "season" of raising children I pray for Gods strength to help me guide my little ones through their friendship journey together. I have thought many times as I watch my sweet little girls interacting together; the loud giggles, playing together, hair pulling, and lots of hugs, this is a process of their childhood. At times when squabbles may occur ask for strength and when all is quiet sit back rest assured that when you have passed on your children will have a "rock" an everlasting "friendship" to cling onto!

Green Week

2009-04-20T07:10:00.005-04:00

So some of my family gets a laugh out of teasing me about all of my "knowledge" of organic, natural living/parenting, environmental safety....and the list goes on!! To remember earth week all this week I will try to post various things related to "being green" and our homeschool week will also be about "earth week/green living".

The first thing I wanted to share was a cloth diaper sight I love (where I bought my diapers)
banana peels diapers is having

A "Green" Diaper-a-Day Giveaway
Every day this week!

Today's giveaway is a gro-baby organic one size diaper
Check it out and good luck!

Recovering

2009-04-14T05:54:00.003-04:00

Well, here we are one day after surgery this picture was taken (5 hours after) still smiling! God love her!!! Our little Boo did great. Surgery itself lasted about 1 hour and we were in and out in 4. I can't say enough good things about the organization, timeliness, and overall care we got from Children's Hospital. They did a wonderful job caring for my sweet little one.

Her cyst was bigger than what we (and her Doctor) initially thought. It was a bit larger than a marble (oblong shaped) and tucked a bit under the bone. Over all she has done wonderful...kicked her IV out of her foot, kicked the infrared monitor off.....sounds like my spunky little bear!
Already playing with toys and kept a smile for most of the day. Last night was a bit hard at times I could tell she was frustrated and a bit annoyed with the tape on her eye. I would be too! This morning her eye is a bit swollen but I'm sure that too shall pass. I truly think the worst part is her coughing from being intubated during surgery.

Thank you for all of your prayers and on going support!!

Giveaway

2009-04-12T07:08:00.003-04:00

So I entered another giveaway today this one is on a blog I love to follow she is a homeschooling mom of a preschooler like myself and has many wonderful ideas.

As a homeschooling parent making the commitment to live on one income can seem quite overwhelming at times (especially in today's economy) so to help earn some extra money this mommy has started her own business (my dream)!! Check her blog out at Memories to Books to learn more!

Surgery

2009-04-12T06:42:00.003-04:00

Well it is Easter Morning and the girls are still sleeping can you say "shocking!!" I am up of coarse waiting for them to awake to their Easter surprises. We have a fun packed day full of events. Blessings to you, your families, and all of your little ones!

I also wanted to ask for everyone to say a little prayer tomorrow for our little K-bear she will have surgery on a Dermoid Cyst above her right eye. Anyone I have spoken with about this has assured me "its no big deal"! Of coarse any surgery has its risks and the worry is a bit more when it is your own 8 mo old! So please think of us tomorrow and I will be sure to post more on her recovery.

Thanks for praying for me!!!

Lifes Many Hurdles

2009-04-04T05:52:00.004-04:00

So for all my friends and family that know me personally most of you know I was the number one worst computer student in high school and college for that matter. I could crash entire systems without even tying and make the biggest "oops" on almost any computer. To be honest, I have been so awful with them in my past I'm surprised I even use one to this day! So I'm happy to say I think most of you would agree I have made great strides with my "computer hurdle" and skills.

While I was thinking about what to write this morning I began to think of all the other "hurdles" we mothers face in our "journey of motherhood". The little "hurdles" first diaper changes, lost pacifiers in the night, the best way to introduce foods to our little ones, surviving a crawling infant, a walking toddler, and first boo-boo's the list is virtually endless. We conquer many "hurdles" without even realizing it. We simply chug along!

What I am finding to be true is as so many wise mothers with older children have told me "Little kids little problems; Big kids big problems". Yes, my children are still very small but as their mother I do feel it is my God given duty to protect them, raise them to be good loving individuals, work hard, love themselves, love God, and grab a hold of all that life has to offer. Now those "hurdles" aren't seeming so small!!

Give Away

2009-03-31T06:20:00.003-04:00

O.k. so I always see these blog giveaways and never enter (I never win anything anyways!!!) but this one looks awesome so I thought I would give it a whirl on the blog Coffee With The Mrs. she is giving away this really neat travel tray that would be super handy for pumpkin in the car or on the boat. I'm thinking "school on the go", contained snacks, happy Mama and happy 3 year old!! Check it out who knows maybe you'll win it!!

Restful Nights

2009-03-27T06:15:00.012-04:00

Ok so funny story I was laying in bed last night thinking about what to blog about today? Most people sleep I "blog-rest"! A typical night looks something like this for me;

7/7:30PM girls go to bed
7:30/8:00PM finish chores (laundry, dishes, whatever I didn't get done)
8:00-9:30PM read (one of many books...I've got going)

The Duggars: 20 and Counting!: Raising One of America's Largest Families--How they Do It

The Vaccine Guide: Risks and Benefits for Children and Adults

Twilight (The Twilight Saga, Book 1)

9:30 to bed I go (toss, turn, pray, think...10:00/10:15PM asleep)
11:00PM (K.bear gets up to nurse) 11:15 back to sleep...think, pray some more I may have dozed off the first time!!
1:00AM .."Mommy"....(Pumpkins up going potty "will you cuddle?")...cuddle for a few...doze off
back in my bed around 2:00 AM
2:30AM/3 K.bear want to nurse (again)
3:00-4:30/5:00 sound sleep....(WONDERFUL!)
5:00 K.bear is up and ready to go, eat breakfast with Daddy..see him off to work and that starts my day!

Are you exhausted?.....I am just thinking about it!! I have been asked a lot lately about "How do you do that?" I usually just say "How do you do it?"

If there is one thing I have learned with having kids there are some things you just "do". There truly is no sense in whining about it who wants to listen to that? So for all my friends out there if you ever wonder why I don't go out much at night...this would be why!! LOL

My attitude enjoy it now ...because someday you'll miss it!!

Mr. Daddy Potato

2009-03-23T07:46:00.003-04:00

So this blog entry is dedicated to my lovely husband who I promised I would post his beautiful "twice baked potatoes" on the blog. Yes, he did make me take a picture of these while we had company over... God love him!! They were yummy and the best part he made them!!

First, Grill the potatoes and then let cool just a bit....

Scoop out the inside and make mashed potatoes (he added real bacon bits, chives, sour cream, milk, and butter) He also mixes his with a mixer (no lumps)

Spoon mixture back into the potato shell

Sprinkle with cheese and bake at 350 degrees (15-20 minutes...could also use the boiler)

(We intend to make up a bunch of these and freeze for the summer!! Thaw, reheat, and eat!!)

Enjoy!! (Complements of our Daddy!!) xoxoxo

Plan Ahead

2009-03-19T05:45:00.004-04:00

So this year with two active little ones who love the outdoors I have decided to "get a jump start" on a few things (mostly meal prep at this point). I think the warmer weather here has inspired me to do so since feeding my family nutritious meals is something I really strive to do most nights. I need to be ahead of the game! If my memory serves me right last Spring/Summer I was constantly scrounging around after days at the park and days on the boat for "quick meals" (not always the most healthy).

My plan....stock the deep freeze!!

Yesterday, I browned approximately 5 lbs of ground beef, measured it (1-1 1/2 lbs ea.) in freezer ziplock bags. I intend to buy a little extra ground beef over the coming weeks and again do the same (working within my regular grocery budget I might add). One less step when throwing together tacos, sloppy joes, and chilies! I made a meatloaf and some meatballs (I always have homemade meatballs on hand!!) I then tucked both of these away in the freezer for a "quick pop it in the oven night" too. Perfect in just a couple hours I already have enough for 5 quick "throw together" meals and it is only March.

Make your own!

2009-03-16T07:13:00.007-04:00

I thought I would put together a few little recipes to share with all of you we'll say a "mommy make and take"!

First up; Fruit/Veggie wash

We have all seen and/or probably bought the fruit and veggie wash from the grocery store to wash our produce. Well with Spring almost upon us I thought I would share a money saving recipe
(sorry I can't remember where I got it from) to make your own. Bonus you will know exactly what is in it plus you probably have all of these ingredients at home already!

1C. water
1C. vinegar
2 TBS baking soda
1 TBS lemon juice

Mix all the ingredients together in a large jug or empty 2 liter bottle. Shake it up (fun for the kids) they can watch the fiz from the baking soda and vinegar. When the fizzing subsides, pour into an empty spray bottle.

For use spray produce thoroughly and let sit for 10-12 minutes, then rinse with water! Voila!!!

Birthday Surprise

2009-03-13T06:10:00.002-04:00

Yep, I'm another year older! My birthday was this past Monday and I must say it was among my better adult birthdays. We saw family over the weekend and then on my actual birthday we went to story time at the library, had pizza for dinner, and celebrated with pie for dessert with a couple neighbor friends. I could not have planned it any better myself (wait?, I kind of did!) My DH surprised me and sent flowers to the house (it has been about 9+ years since that last occurred...so I was quite delighted to say the least).

They are truly a breath of fresh air I could not help but resist sharing them with all of you!! ENJOY!!!

Saying Bye!

2009-03-07T06:02:00.004-05:00

So have you ever wondered why people come in go in our lives? For what purpose does God put people in our lives just to take them away?

This thought crossed my mind several times yesterday as I was cleaning (for those of you that don't know me personally I clean houses 1x a week for extra money). I knew last night we were going to be saying "bye" to one of our close friends and neighbors. We live in you could say an "odd little block". Our neighbors are more like family than neighbors and we are VERY close with many families in our surrounding area. We eat meals together (weekends and during the week), our kids play together daily, spend holidays together, and just about anything you do with your family we do with our neighbors too! It is wonderful! So as you can imagine how saddened we must be seeing one family go. Pumpkin rolled over for the first time at this particular neighbors and also enjoyed her first trip "Up-North" with this family. We have spent numerous "Neighborhood Christmas Parties" there, New Years, bowling, and just weekend hang outs. Life will certainly be different, but on the upside we now have a new vacation spot to visit.

So when it comes to saying "good-bye" whether it is a temporary see you later, moving to a new location permanently, or when someone passes away. Think of how that person and/or persons has touched your life in some small way. I truly believe we are all here on earth to serve a purpose and with that said I challenge you....What is your purpose?

Think Spring

2009-02-23T07:01:00.002-05:00

I have been on a mission to beat the Winter blahs around here! I love snow, sledding, building snowmen, and cozy nights by the fire but enough already! Bring on some spring cleaning, fresh air, walks at night, and park days.

So in an attempt to kick things into swing over here I have started a reorganization mission, a "10 minute tidy" routine with Pumpkin (42 mo's), and to go along with my "fresh" new thinking I decided to change the layout of my blog too! Hopefully by the end of the week I will have some new fun things on here that I have been tossing around in this head of mine :) Have a warm, wintry day but think "Spring"!!

Waiting

2009-02-19T06:02:00.003-05:00

So I am anxiously awaiting my boxes of school supplies for Skinny Minnie! I made my first purchase yesterday from Discount School Supply! I was like a kid in a candy store clicking on all of the items (some for this year some for next). I will likely be putting in another order after I have saved some more money. I think I have a new addiction to buying educational items :)

After much contemplating, pondering, reading, and anxiety over what is "right" we have finally decided A is staying home for school again next year. Thanks to all of you veteran homeschoolers who have been so patient with me and my millions of questions.

This will likely be a year by year decision on our families behalf but it is truly a decision that I feel shouldn't be taken lightly (despite the age of the child). I get a lot of "she is only 31/2 don't worry" I just smile, nod, or bite my tongue because it is obvious to me at that point this individual does not share the same views on education as I do. My personal belief is that education and learning starts from the time a child is born. Parents are a child's first and most important educator. No-one knows your child and his or her needs better than you!

1 sick Mama

2009-02-10T06:55:00.005-05:00

So Sunday I had a touch of the flu; I guess you could say. I felt awful and what a real eye opener it was. I had a terrible headache, had the chills, and my stomach felt like I spent 3 hours riding the "tea cups" at Cedar point. Like most Moms you can't simply lay there and feel sick...I had a 6 mo old playing on the floor squealing and a 3 year old who kept telling me how when I felt better I could play with her. My DH thank God kept the house in tact while I simply laid there. What an awful feeling as a Mom, but of coarse that got me to thinking....

How lucky I am! You are probably thinking, what? Lucky? You felt like you were going to throw up all over and your head was pounding like mad. Nope, I had to turn it into something good. I laid there and thought....how lucky I am to be able to play with my kids everyday! How lucky I am to cook, clean, and just do those everyday tasks that sometimes seem so trivial and repetitive. You know the ones I'm talking about like the laundry that NEVER goes away. I found myself appreciating the ability to do all of those things because not being able to made me want to cry. I started to think of those Moms who have illnesses and disabilities that keep them from "playing" everyday. So here's wishing you and your family a happy, healthy, rest of the Winter!

Good Mom Vs. Bad Mom

2009-02-03T06:40:00.003-05:00

To those of you with kids you all know what I am talking about the "Good Mom" vs. the "Bad Mom" feeling you have inside on any particular day. The "Good Mom" took the kids to the library, made a picnic lunch, read books, and played pretend all day. The "Bad Mom" played a bit during the day but spent a better portion of the day cleaning up messes, made important phone calls, and kept say "one more minute". We have all had them the "good days" and the "bad days". Sometimes its not even an entire day that you are the "Good Mom" or the "Bad Mom" it can go back and forth all in a days work.

Let this be a reminder that our children although they do like structure and cleanliness; what they really want is you!! So declare today as a "Good Mom" day and play all day...make a special dinner with your kids, and just enjoy them!

Totally Tots

2009-01-27T06:27:00.004-05:00

Yippie the new Blog "Totally Tots" is up and running!! Just thought I would share a new Mom and Tot Blog I am following and hope to take part in at some point in time. Carisa is great and has so many wonderful ideas....

If you follow my other blog "Wee Explorers" you will see we take part in her Tot School each week and have made many "Mommy Blogger" friends along the way. Isn't it amazing how God puts people in our lives to lead, inspire, and encourage us in our life's journey?

Like a weed...

2009-01-22T06:18:00.002-05:00

The saying they are "growing like a weed"...have you ever taken the time to really think about that saying? Well, if you have ever seen behind my garage there are tons of weeds (raspberry plants too!) and they grow very quickly. In referring to our children that too is a very true statement. Their little minds are learning, questioning, and exploring new things everyday. We have had quite a few firsts around here so I thought I would share;

A now knows her address, who the president is, and her right foot from her left :)

K rolls over front to back, back to front, and over, and over, she blows raspberries, is still working on those teeth, and even tried carrots for the first time yesterday!!

So keep nurturing your little weeds because sooner than later they will be in the "real world" mixed with a bunch of other weeds. Our job as parents is to see that they succeed, stand tall, and believe in themselves all things are possible.

Routine

2009-01-13T06:55:00.005-05:00

Well the holidays are officially over and we are trying to get back in the swing of things around here. That means bedtimes between 7-8 PM (not 9-11), eating real food (not just appetizers), and just the everyday mundane tasks that make life special. As much as I love Christmas and all the decorating, excitement building up to it, cookies, and visiting with friends/family. I was certainly not sad to see it go either. We entertained nearly 80 people at our house over the holidays and believe me the "Closed for Business" sign was almost coming out!

The girls both did surprisingly well with all of the guests, gifts, and change in their routines. Both girls got a lot of new fun toys to play with this Christmas some educational and some just plain fun. A especially liked it this year because she gets to play with K. Bears toys too! Some of our favorites over here this year are Hullabaloo, Melissa and Doug Bead maze, Barbi (of coarse), Calico Critters, and our new Dora the Explorer game for our ClickStart Computer.

Sleepless

2009-01-07T07:27:00.006-05:00

So my littlest wide eyed wanderer didn't think that sleep was needed for mommy last night. Another sleepless night! We're up, we're down, we're fed, we're changed, what more could you want? Just sleep sweet baby. That is what I kept thinking as I literally slept walked into K. Bears room last night 100+ times. I had no idea how little sleep one could actually live on until I had kids.Now imagine those BIG eyes looking at you at 1:30 AM!!

Holiday Cards!

2008-12-04T05:55:00.004-05:00

With the "Holiday Season" upon us and Christmas around the corner we are all surely in a frenzy to bake cookies, send out cards, buy presents, wrap gifts, and of coarse all the while keep things in perspective for our little ones. What is Christmas to your family? Is it Jesus Birthday? Is it a time for family and friends to get together and celebrate? Or do you simply go through the motions? I encourage you to think about this over the next 21 days...What does Christmas mean to me?

Here are some fun things to do with those Holiday cards!

Cut the fronts off of them and save them for crafts with your kids! What kid doesn't love to cut, glue, and make a mess?

Reuse some of the pictures and have your kids re-create cards of there own to send out throughout the year!

Scrapbook the picture cards every year to see how all of your family and friends have changed over the years. Cut out important peoples handwriting (grandma, great grandparents, etc.) and add that to the book as well.

And the last one was passed onto me by a friend (thanks Karen!)

St. Jude's Ranch for Children http://www.stjudesranch.org/help_card.php a non profit home for abused and neglected youths, runs a holiday card reuse program in which the kids cut off the front covers, glue them onto new cards, and sell the results - earning them money and confidence.

We are accepting used, all-occasion greeting cards from November 15, 2008 thru February 28, 2009. You can mail your donations to:

St. Jude's Ranch for Children
Card Recycling Program
100 St. Jude's Street
Boulder City, NV 89005

What better way to recycle and reuse those holiday cards we love to receive but in the end don't really know what to do with?

Feed the Hungry

2008-11-20T06:10:00.005-05:00

Here are the pictures of Pumpkin packing the lunch for the homeless man! She had a lot of fun stuffing little snacks in the bag for him. Im sure she liked that she got to get a hot chocolate with Mommy afterwords too.

A peanut butter and jelly sandwich, granola bar, chips, and water! O.k so I have to say the homeless man was not on the same street as usual so we did have to drive up one more mile to find someone but none the less we were able to give our lunch away.

Lastly, Pumpkin made a special "May God Bless You" card for the man and added her artistic touch to it! So whether the man was actually homeless or hungry the thought was there. Give and keep giving!!

Fun Little Song for Kids (like Twinkle Twinkle Little Star)

Thank you for the Sun so bright
Thank you for the Moon at night
Thank you for my family
Thank you my friends that play with me
I am Thankful for everything I see
I am Thankful, Yesiree!

Giving Thanks

2008-11-12T05:57:00.003-05:00

As the weather starts to get colder (who am I kidding...starts? Its down right frigid!) and the gentle snow has already graced us with its presence my darling 3 yr old jumps with delight in our living room "Santa is coming". Listen Mama the reindeer are on our roof. (Mom and Dad smile) We have not said anything to her about reindeer, but she is running with it. In an effort to sway her imagination to some more concrete happenings in our world at this present time I am really trying to teach her about giving "Thanks" I might add this is a hard one for a 3yr old to learn. Heck, who am I kidding it is hard for adults. Adults are very easily distracted by the must haves, gotta have it, need more society we live in. However, I have found this year for what ever reason it is much easier to be "Thankful". Thankful for my husband, my children, my home, our health, great family, and wonderful friends. So with that said here I wanted to share a recent story with you;

The other day I was driving to get a coffee...."mamas special coffee" as A would say. When I went to exit the expressway there sat a homeless man whom I have seen many times before. Sitting with his sign "homeless, hungry, please help" Many don't know this side of me but many years ago I did a mission trip to Haiti which forever changed me. Ever since I have never really found another way in my life to give back or give more than I did at that time. Well, what ever the reason that poor man has really touched me in the same way as the orphans in Haiti! I can't seem to shake the thought of that man sitting there as I go to buy/spoil myself with a fancy coffee. My point: there are lots of people today that need help right in your own back yard. So my new mission is to try in some small way to help, and lucky for my little ones they are coming on this mission! Today I think we are going to make the homeless man a lunch and stick it out the window as a start (I have seen many people hand him $ and one time I saw 2 teenagers give a homeless man sitting on the same corner their left over Burger King...very touching.)

So this upcoming holiday season I encourage you and your families to think a little about what things you might be able to help others in your own backyard (gift baskets, donate clothes, visit a hospital, or even a nursing home) We do not have a lot to give financially in our home but Im sure what little things we can do/provide for someone else may just mean the world to him or her. Be thankful for the things you have and give to those who maybe searching for a ray of hope!

Paci Revelation

2008-10-30T05:55:00.002-04:00

So this week has truly been one of the worst in my Mommy journey thus far. It all started with dropping and I do mean "DROP" a pot of coffee on my kitchen floor at 4:30 AM Monday morning. Not a good way to start the week!! I thought of writing a book called the "Untold Stories of a Sleep Deprived Mommy". I know I would have plenty with that one ranking amongst the top. Coffee was everywhere! Nothing like mopping up "Liquid Gold" at 4:30AM I could have cried how could I spill something I truly do need for my own survival at this point in my life? However, I might add God was truly watching me as I did it because not one drop landed on me I could have seriously burned my feet.

The week progresses.....Abby refuses to take a nap we are on day 3 of no nap in her bed. My sweet angel who would sleep 3 hrs now refuses to take one at all? errrr!!! Exhausting is the best way to describe it. Sometimes I feel like super nanny dragging her back and back again to her room, take quiet time, play with whatever you want, sleep, just sit there! Mommy needs a break...even a half hour is better than nothing. Only to cave and let her watch a movie on the couch so I can have a few minutes to myself. That is to add if the little one cooperates too.

Yesterday took the cake....everything was a battle...not wanting breakfast, not wanting a nap, demanding that her paci go with her everywhere she went....Im talking 21/2-3 hrs of crying throughout the day from a 3 yr old. It was so bad at one point I took a "mommy time out" I shut the door to my room. I told her why I was going in there; because I was being mean and getting really upset I needed to take a break. That REALLY made her mad. Pounding on my door yelling (I might add the baby slept through it all!!). That was when things began to change. The paci was no longer important and we had a great evening. I do mean great!!

Abby decided on her own after dinner that she was going to throw the paci's in the garbage she no longer needed them....I didn't believe her so I had my husband dig them out and hide them. Clean them too!! But she did it!!! It is 6:00 AM right now and we are paci free!! She is so proud of herself I saw her 2x's in the middle of the night (bathroom and needed covers) both times she looked at me with those big brown eyes and said "Im sleeping so good" "Im big"!!

Whatever brought us to this point I do not know but I thanked God last night 100x's for this outcome. This mommy couldn't have another paci battle!!